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Elust 175 Nyala Mali

Elust 175

This month’s cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of sensuous clairsentient seductress Nyala Mali. What a dazzling pic! Check out her site and follow her Onlyfans.

The Sex Shed – How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps: Practical steps to ensure toys are safe for use, focusing on materials, design, and user guidelines to avoid potential risks and enhance safety during anal play.

Ramone Quides – Destroyer of Good Erotica!: The importance of maintaining flexibility in the creative process and the value of taking breaks to gain fresh perspectives. It also shares insights on overcoming writer’s block and enhancing storytelling techniques.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J – The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent: The dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships. Kristina J explains how understanding and applying these principles can lead to more fulfilling and consensual interactions, enhancing mutual satisfaction and trust.

Beyond Non-Binary – What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?: The nature of power, control, and the archetype of the dominatrix. It highlights the author’s experiences and insights into the world of dominatrixes, offering a unique perspective on their roles and the energy they channel.

Morgan Destera – TOY TEST – Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise: Glow-in-the-dark!

Betty’s Toy Box – Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples: How the toy can enhance intimacy and shared pleasure, offering detailed insights into its features and user experience.

Sydney Screams – Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review: Love a good fantasy themed toy.

Witch of the Wands – Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go: Travel-friendly options like the Crave Vesper necklace, which combines functionality with style, allowing users to keep their toys handy and incognito. The post emphasizes the importance of discretion and convenience for travellers.

Unicorn Hunting Blog – Zara Du Rose interview: ZDR events and how to become a celebrity on the UK party scene: Event security, guest care, and the rules that ensure a safe and enjoyable environment for all attendees.

Buzzing Babe – Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure: Practical advice on how to start with light BDSM activities, focusing on communication, consent, and the different forms of play that can enhance intimacy.

Sex Toy DB – 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind Blowing Fucking Machine: Tips on setting it up in various positions and environments, such as on a dining chair or bondage bench, to maximize pleasure and functionality.

Sydney Screams, Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review

Princess Preview, Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Stan’s Swingers – Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play: The importance of communication, consent, and respect for privacy, offering guidelines for engaging in public play ethically and enjoyably.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM – The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon: Insights into the film’s narrative, characters, and its place within the broader context of BDSM representation in media.

Hannah McKnight – Behold, the Power of Forms: Practical tips on choosing and wearing shapewear, emphasizing the transformative power of these garments in creating a desired silhouette.

Sex Worker Search – Best Business Practices For Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA: Covers content moderation, age verification, and proactive policies to prevent exploitation, ensuring that sex work websites operate ethically and legally.

Oz Bigdownunder – Just a Cock in a Cage: Oz Bigdownunder shares a personal account of a BDSM session involving chastity play.  An intimate look at the power exchange and psychological aspects of chastity and control.

Sandra – Summertime Gangbang: My gangbang event.

Hellga – Malasana Pose Anal Action: Hellga details an encounter involving anal sex in the Malasana yoga pose.

The Siren Domme – Review: The Nest’ By Loonerfun: A multi room playspace in Cardiff.


Summertime Gangbang

If you’ve been following my blog, you’ll know I love a good gangbang.

Master Oz and I have been hosting gangbangs and bukkake parties for many years now.

The first gangbang I mentioned on my blog was back in 2021.

Then we hosted this bukkake party in 2022.

Our most recent party was a  gangbang for my birthday in 2023.

Then last week we hosted a summertime gangbang. Our first event for 2024.

The tagline for the event was “Everyone fuck my pussy, ass and throat and cum on my face”. And they did!

A total of 8 people came to our gangbang. 6 regulars who’ve been to our events before and 2 new guys.

We got everyone to meet up at the pub down the road and met them there at the agreed time. My regulars all know me and the new guys had my description so as soon as I arrived in front of the pub, all my soon to be gangbangers were greeting me with hugs and kisses. All of them with growing semis in their pants, eager to get back to my flat, get me naked and fuck me hard left right and centre.

They didn’t have to wait long. I was as eager as they were.

Our little procession made it’s way a few hundred metres to my front door and from there, quickly and discreetly into my home sweet home soundproof basement fuck dungeon.

Everyone took turns to quickly freshen up in the bathroom and once we were all naked and ready to go, I got down on my knees and gave everyone a warm, wet, sloppy deepthroat welcome.

While we were gangbanging, England was playing Slovakia. I was more interested in my guests tackle and they were captivated by my ball handling skills.

I did notice some of the squad sneaking into the kitchen where they’d left their belongings to quickly check the score on their phones between rounds of action and they were talking football while pounding me.

That’s all fine.

They went in hard, got inside the box, no chance of a clean sheet, beautiful dribbling, the goal was wide open, he shoots, he scores!

Final score was 10 nil but I scored one of my own in extra time after my gangbangers had left me alone with my magic wand, still covered in their cum.


Elust 174 catalina-cruz

Elust 174

Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina’s Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips.

Erotic Non Fiction

Voyageur Maggie and Paul

A short story exploring the complexities of a relationship marked by power dynamics and deep emotional bonds.

Kristina J Kink and Fetish

This post explores the variety and complexity of kinks and fetishes, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication in these practices.

Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery

reflecting on identity and transition

Erotic Fiction

barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences

chastity play

FYHO Her Boys

The dynamics of a polyamorous relationship

Jasmine Gold A Submissive’s First Threesome


Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End

The final installment in the “Bedroom Eyes” series

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST – Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo

High performance and versatility

Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O

compact size and powerful vibrations

Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review

I’d like to take that for a ride

Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison

They’re too cute!

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine

creative suggestions for spicing up sexual routines, encouraging couples to explore new experiences together

Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare

Best practices for ensuring physical and emotional well-being post-scene

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships

Big nipples please

Betty’s Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms

Doggy for me usually but it depends on the shape and size of the cock or toy.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)

For your viewing pleasure

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune

Out of this world

Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?

Take a look under the hood

Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow

An MFF strap on threesome

Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

My post.

Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

I was in Hong Kong at the end of April and had a great time there with some regulars, some new clients and with my favourite duo partner Anita Swank.

This tour was planned and advertised in advance so I already had plenty of sessions booked before I arrived.

One new client I met there was extra nice. He emailed me to say he’d never had a threesome with two girls and it was his biggest fantasy to spank two sexy girls and then receive a sloppy blowjob with two of us taking turns to deepthroat him while the other sucked his balls.

I told him I know the perfect girl for the job.

Anita Swank is endlessly sexy and naturally submissive.

Anita Swank

Just look at that ass! When it came time for her spanking, I whispered to our new friend to aim each slap for the exact same spot on her right ass cheek and then do the same on her left ass cheek. I asked him to keep his palm slightly cupped to make the maximum loud slapping noise that gets me super wet and his fingers slightly spread so he’d leave perfect hand prints.

He was a natural. He placed every slap with perfect accuracy so that the handprints were beautifully defined and just got redder and redder with every slap.

Once he was done she had his hands imprinted there like a purple butterfly.

We rewarded him with the greatest blowjob in the history of blowjobs and between us we swallowed every drop.


Elust 171 Sydney Screams

Elust 171

Dive into Elust 171. Tub loads of sexiness. Image courtesy of Sydney Screams.

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

Sandra Vitamin S

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What’s the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

FYHO The Polaroid

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

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Vitamin S. A Trio with Mistress Volga and TS Ama.

Mistress Volga extended a tempting offer, inviting me to join her and a client who had a penchant for silk-clad beauties.

TS Ama, adding her own allure, joined us for what promised to be an evening of sensual decadence.

Mistress Volga’s collection of silk was a sexy treasure trove which we eagerly explored. Donning silk panties, gowns, and stockings with suspenders, we indulged in the luxury of the fabric.

My favourite was a pale pink gown by Agent Provocateur.

Mistress Volga preferred her Honey Birdette suspenders and green silk gown.

Ama brought her own Bordello silk suspenders and baby doll silk dress.

Mr S, captivated by the sight of us in our silk finery, traced our curves with reverent hands, lost in the allure of feminine grace. Amidst whispers of champagne and plans for future photoshoots, Mistress Volga and I shared playful pleasures, while Ama and Mr S retreated for a more intimate rendezvous in the bedroom.

A game of blindfolded guess who (‘s giving you a blowjob) added an extra thrill to the night. Mr S guessed the source of his pleasure – Volga, Ama, or myself – with surprising accuracy.

It seemed like his wandering hands touching our outfits were a give away so we tried again naked. He guessed correctly again so by that time he must have already learned to discern our unique fellatio stylings.

Amidst laughter and whispered confessions, the night unfolded, a testament to the intoxicating allure of silk and the depths of desire it inspired.

I didn’t see what happened in the bedroom but Ama later told us it involved her fucking Mr S hard up the ass from behind while giving him a reach around.

A dream come true for Mr S and lots of fun for Volga, Ama and myself too.

Elust 170 Jo Koss

Elust 170 is Sexier Than a Black Tie Gangbang.

Elust 170 is now live with my Duo with TS Ama post included. Brilliant collection of sexy writing as always and I love the cover Image by Jo Koss! Gives me an idea for my next Gangbang or Bukkake party. I’ll make it a black tie event and ask all the gents to wear suits 🙂

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

Movie trivia = one of the naked slave girls chained to the wall is Lucille Ball.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

Watching out for the sequel. My money says Camilla is going to end up having a threesome with them.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

There should be more mollusc themed pet names if you ask me. Scallop.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Ever got turned on reading about bankers and lawyers networking after a corporate meeting? Trust me, you will.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

This almost makes me want to go running. Almost.

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Dylan Thomas’s excellent advice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

Huddersfield Escort extraordinaire with all you need to know about GFE.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

If everyone read this. I’d be out of a job..

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

Looks awesome. Maybe don’t take it in your hand luggage.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

I take back what I said about the buzz vibes post, I love sexy couples with great communication. If you’re a couple, read that and this , then come and see me!

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?


The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Love a good sissy session.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

Likewise, I’ve figured out almost everything I know about being submissive as a sex worker via trial and error. The pro sub world needs this resource.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

My duo with Ama.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

Tis the season to wear latex and gas masks. While it’s not too hot and sweaty.

Oz Valentine’s Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Romantic 🙂

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

The A to Z of safely booking a session with a sex worker.


Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Brb, off to watch some hentai.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone’s a great sex blogger. I’m sure inspiration will return.

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Duo with TS Ama

My regular client who always meets me when he’s in London contacted me recently and asked if I know any sexy TS escorts.

I do!

I sent him a link to my friend Ama’s twitter.

Lust at first sight!

So we arranged a day and time for the duo (trio) here at my flat in Marylebone.

The first hour was 1-1 my gentleman friend and I and then Ama joined us for 2 hours.

For the first hour I dressed my man as a sissy in a slutty latex outfit with high heels.

I named my new sissy slut Chrissy.

Chrissy helped me into my latex and we both needed plenty of silicone spray to get our latex nice and glistening.

Four hands are better than two for polishing latex. Chrissy and I both lent a hand or two for polishing. Plenty of ass polishing. Got to get the ass nice and shiny.

On my command, Chrissy practiced her strut and butt wiggle parading her shiny ass up and down my living room.

She was a bit wobbly at first but with the right encouragement, Chrissy got the hang of her catwalk. The little half turn and pose move I got her to do was especially seductive.

Chrissy and I both enjoyed some anal play together to get our asses ready for Ama who was eager to join in and fuck both of us.

When Ama arrived she ws wearing Bordelle lingerie which was gorgeous but soon came off so she could change into her own sexy latex outfit from Lady Lucie Latex. Ama looked spectacular in her latex and Louboutins. Perfect match with me in my own latex outfit from Honour with my Pleaser boots.

Chrissy showed Ama the strut she’d been practicing. Shook her little tush on the catwalk.

I fucked Chrissy with a strap on while Ama throat fucked her. High five, of course. The Eiffel tower.

My weapon of choice was the Fun Factory Boss pink silicone dildo on my favourite strap on harness.

Ama fucked me in the ass. And a damn fine ass fucking it was too.

Champagne for everyone.

After our bubbles break, Ama fucked Chrissy from behind with me lying underneath in 69.

I could tell from Chrissy’s rock hard, throbbing sissy clit and the noises she was making that she was almost immediately very close to cumming but Ama was able to set the pace and slow things down and I was careful to edge Chrissy to prolong our pleasure.

The three of us were in perfectly synchronised throes of passion as if we were a lifelong throuple.

Chrissy came first and Ama pulled out and came all over me while I was having my own earth shaking orgasm, thrashing and splashing around in the giant puddle of cum my two latex fuck buddies had almost drowned me in.

My happy place. Post orgasmic and wallowing in sperm.

We all got in the shower and took our time getting cleaned up, said goodnight and after they’d left I activated my new vacuum cleaner robot, Owen, with his mop attachment to clean up all the latex polish and spunk off my tiles. If Owen gets pregnant, he’s going to make beautiful cyborg babies.


Elust 168

Image courtesy of Adrianna Assante.

“Principle Decisions” by Thea Belmont is praised for its deep character exploration and BDSM themes.

“I Love a Man in Uniform (1993): The Celluloid Dungeon” explores the descent of a bank clerk turned actor into obsession with a police officer role.

“Exit To Eden” by Anne Rice is criticized for its handling of BDSM themes.

“What’s Wrong With Forced Feminization?” reflects on the cultural and psychological aspects of this kink.

“A little pick me up” discusses the therapeutic effects of rope suspension for emotional relief.

“BDSM Aftercare” emphasizes the importance of aftercare in BDSM activities.

“Unlocking Pleasure: 14 Essential Prodomme Tips for Baby Subs” offers guidance for new individuals in BDSM.

“Tender Domination” narrates a couple’s exploration of dominance and submission.

“The Ghost of Timor – Ch.21 – End” concludes an erotic fiction story.

“Sexy Ghost Story – Mia’s Books” introduces an erotic tale involving a ghostly seduction.

“Squeeze me Please Me” provides an informative guide to cock rings.

“Double Deflowering” describes a BDSM session focusing on anal deflowering.

“Happy Poo Emoji” my post about a scat fetish session.

“What to Do When Your Sexual Expectations Fail You?” addresses sexual performance anxiety and expectations.

“Revolting Prostitutes Book Review” reviews a book advocating for sex workers’ rights.

“Tracy’s Dog Flowliper Vibrator” review highlights its features and drawbacks.

“Review: Velvet Thruster Prime” evaluates a modular thruster with mixed feedback.

“RawLoveStudio Moonbean Unicorn Dildo” praises a fantasy unicorn horn dildo.

“Uncle Bob Silicone Dildo From John Thomas Toys” Bob is a big boy.

“Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker Review” provides a negative review of an electro-spanker.

“Keeping Your Toys Clean: A Guide to Protecting Your Health and Pleasure” emphasizes the importance of cleaning sex toys for hygiene and safety.


Happy Poo Emoji. A Scat Fetish Session.

Last week a new client contacted me by email and asked to book a scat fetish session.

He seemed polite, genuine and respectful and got straight to the point about where and when he’d like to meet without trying to engage in a lot of unnecessary chat.

Like all experienced sex workers, I’m all too familiar with timewasters who like to propose sessions that they think are extreme or shocking in the hope that they  can get free entertainment chatting about the details of an encounter they have zero intention of ever going through with in reality.

The more unusual the request, in my experience, the less likely they are to actually show up to an appointment.

But sometimes these kinds of requests are genuine and in this case my new gentleman friend did everything exactly right to assure me that he wasn’t just messing around.

The scene he had in mind was a kinky GFE (girlfriend experience) where we would start out with a romantic, fairly vanilla date and then at some point I would adjourn to the ladies room to powder my nose and my dashing suitor would chaperone me there and on bended knee, watch me take a big steaming dump.

It’s like Cinderella or something, innit?

I enjoyed Price Charming’s company. He’s really sweet and knows exactly what he likes and why he likes it.

His ex was very private about her ablutions and the more she tried to be discreet about her movements, the more fascinated he became and the desire to know exactly what was going on behind the closed toilet door grew and grew.

He never told her his hearts true desire out of concern that she’d be horrified, instead satisfying his curiosity as best he could by furtively wanking himself off whilst listening to her farting and plopping noises from afar.

Apparently they broke up for reasons unrelated to his unrequited lust for hard sports.

Anyway, I’m no prude and not squeamish at all about my asshole, which is a thing of beauty I normally like to keep clean as a whistle. Especially when anal action is on the menu. But when it’s appropriate to get dirty, I’m down with some dirtiness.

And so it was that after kisses and cuddles and some sensible grown up snuggles, I sat astride my porcelain throne, legs akimbo, with a handsome man crouched before me, gazing in wonderment at the magnificent turd I dropped for his viewing pleasure.

He came. I wiped and flushed. We both washed our hands. And we all lived happily ever after.

Elust 167 cover by Pod

Elust 167

Elust 167 is here and what an awesome cover Image courtesy of Pod1213. Sit back, relax and enjoy all the best sex blog posts from the past month.

Product Reviews

Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator

Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox

The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action

Review: Magic Wand Micro

Midnight Menagerie Teufl

The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023

Gosh, you really got some nice toys here barefoot sub, Liz X, Betty, Girlyjuice, Princess and Sex Toy DB.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame

Quality post from Buzzvibes. Check out their products too.

Home for the Polydays

And a happy Polyday season to you too, Ready for Polyamory.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship

Silken Claws with much more than a handful of spanking advice.

Erotic Fiction

Red Panties and Purple Passions

Ramone finds a blackout mask draped over the spare room doorknob and the sounds of his wife in the throes of passion with another man. Every cuckolds wildest fantasy.

Bedroom Eyes 30

Jerusalem Mortimer with the latest adventures of Stephanie, Maires and their Master.

Books and Movies

Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings

Dracula! I love vampires. Never really thought about them as metaphors for forbidden sex, but it does make sense.

Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon

History of BDSM goes to the movies.

Sex Work

Come to Dubai Habibi

Oz enjoying sun, sand and forced bi duos in Dubai.

Locktober Special

Lady Phoenix holds the keys (to her slaves’ chastity cages).

Kink: Prostate massage

Mina Fontana gives a thumbs up to Prostate massage.

On Promises

Keep your promises to Louisa Knight.

Facility X Dungeon

My blog post.


This is really bad news from Sex Worker Search. It seems google’s latest bright idea is to expunge sex workers sites from their search results.

The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine

Hellga puts the R in Male, Female, Robot double penetration threesomes.

fetters fuck bench facility x dungeon

Facility X Dungeon

One of my favourite regulars took me to Facility X Dungeon the other day.

He’s a kinky, dominant, dirty minded perv into anal action, big toys and fisting.

Facility X is the perfect setting for our fun and games.

It’s minimalist in decor. Kind of industrial and serious looking for the no nonsense kinkster who likes all their toys clearly arranged, everything neat and clinical and in it’s place, all their furniture built to specifications that could withstand a kaiju attack.

There’s a rather ominous looking sheet metal floor and plastic strip curtains. Butcher shop chic.

Even the four poster bed is made from solid steel and looks like you could hang a tractor off it.

My ass took a prolonged and relentless pounding whilst bent over their beautiful fetters spanking bench. Loved it. I could barely walk afterwards and am still recovering two days later.

Elust 166 Cover Heather Strong

Elust 166

A beautiful cover image thanks to Heather Strong and so many incredible sex blog posts in this month’s Elust 166! Happy reading. Hope you enjoy these as much as I did.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles

Super Smash Cache on how to rule over your male submissive and have him eating out of your hand.

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Silken claws on why chastity is not everyone’s cup of tea.

Erotic Non Fiction

Take A Look At Yourself

The barefoot sub in front of the full length mirror.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man

GirlyBoy has switched endocrinologists and changed their hormone replacement therapy with a pronounced effect on their sensitivity and libido.

Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend

Betty’s Toy Box with a new technique and the toys best suited for this pleasurable way to play.

Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple

Joan Price interviews one of the co-authors of a book on how partners can support one another in overcoming insecurities, inhibitions, shame, and self-consciousness that often accompany aging.

Product Reviews

The Basilisk

William from Musings of a switch reviews a monster dildo from Laphwing.

Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer

Liz Black road tests an erotic audio app with AI.

Erotic Fiction

The Gym

You meet a sexy stranger at the gym. Erotica written in second-person point of view by For Your Heart Only.

Steph’s Surprise

Gander in London presents a very sexy cuckolding scene.


Will the dare result in a reward or a penalty? By Dr Girlfriend for When Jerry Met Ali.

The Bradley Shower Pole

Gloryhole action in the bathhouse by Sinclair Sexsmith.

Writing about writing

Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit

Ramone Quides gives thanks to those who have inspired his writing this month. Including Elust 🙂

Sex Work

Bring Your Fantasies to Life

Charlie Rose on different types of fantasies.

The Perfect Enquiry

Madeleine Rose on how to contact a sex worker.

Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie

A red hot duo with Oz Bigdownunder.

Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition

Sex Worker Search interviews Mike Stabile, representing FSC,  the trade association of the adult entertainment industry.

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder

My duo with Oz.

Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin

Hellga takes no prisoners. Well. At least one prisoner is going to get taken. Up the butt.

MMF duo pic by midjourney

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder


Image courtesy of Midjourney AI.

Midjourney is an artificial intelligence program that creates images from whatever description you give it.

You can even ask it to create the picture in the style of a specific artist.

I wanted an image that would work well with this blog post about an MMF DP Duo with Oz Bigdownunder and a regular client of ours.

So I registered on Discord, paid for a subscription and asked Midjourney to make a picture in the style of Frank Frazetta of two men embracing one blonde woman.

The featured image is what Midjourney created. One of the guys seems to have six fingers but apart form that it’s pretty good!

This was the prompt I gave the AI = “A full length fantasy image of three people = two men and one woman. Two, strong, muscular men, one lighter, one darker, embracing a beautiful, blonde woman in the style of a romance novel book cover if the novel was illustrated by Frank Frazetta. The two men are embracing the same woman at the same time. The woman is in the middle.”

I had to play around with the wording a bit before it got the idea. At first it kept creating very vanilla images of one man and one woman cuddling but with a few extra sentences reinforcing the idea that it’s a threesome without saying threesome since that would offend the delicate sensibilities of the robot, it did create something quite perfect.

They make a lovely throuple. It looks like they just parachuted out of a plane to go on safari together. The boys are sharing one shirt. The six fingered man’s coiffure is magnificent.

I bought some credits on Open AI so I could try the same prompt with Dall-E but the images it created were all a bit too spooky. Midjourney handled the faces far batter than Dall-E which always seems to make people look like bits of Mr Potato melted together by Pablo Picasso.

Anyway, where was I. That’s right, getting fucked left, right and centre by two strapping, well-hung, bisexual studmuffins.

In the end, Oz came in my pussy. He’s the only one who can do that. He’s on PREP, we both got tested recently and we know everything about each others sexual proclivities. I trust him. He trusts me. He gets to spunk in my vaginal cavity. Then our man friend, who doesn’t have six fingers, licked me clean, gave me a deep French kiss then jerked himself off and came all over my face. And we rode off into the sunset on the back of an especially strong horse and all lived happily ever after.

Elust 163 cover Jordan Maxx

Elust 163

The Elust 163 Cover Image is courtesy of  Jordan Maxx. What a hotty!

Read on for the best new sex blog posts on kink, fetish, sex and relationships, sex toys, spanking, sex work and erotica.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt and Harm

15 Sex Room Decor Themes To Consider

7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dom Dirty Talk

Kylie Cockwhore’s Kinky Commentary Part Two

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Embrace Your Inner Wildness and Take a Leap of Faith

Public Sex

Product Reviews

Tenga Geo Coral Masturbator Review

Review of the Wave Shower Head Stimulator by Womanizer and Hans Grohe

Sucky Ducky. Funzze Clit Sucking Toy Review

Viben Fierce Wand

Erotic Fiction

Blowing Off Steam


Hot Spanking Scene

Erotic Non Fiction

Red-Bottom Blues

Sex Work

Stepping Into a World of Feet

Blue Door Dungeon

How to be an Ideal Client

The ‘Mommy Goddess’ and the Mass Reporting of Sex Workers on Instagram

Double Penetration with Big Dildos

Chat GPT, Bing AI and Google Bard’s Opinions on Sex Work

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Blue Door Dungeon

A new client contacted me last week and got straight to the point saying he’d already booked a dungeon for that evening and would like me to join him there as a professional submissive to receive a spanking.

He told me the time, location and what he would like to do. 6pm, Blue Door Dungeon, handcuffs, blindfold, spanking with wooden paddle and stainless steel anal hook.

He asked me to come to meet him dressed in a secretary uniform. High heels, stockings, short skirt and sheer blouse with no bra or panties.

All fine with me. He agreed to my rate and to my limits. Security buddy to drop me off, cash up front, safety call to my security buddy after payment, no bruises, marks or injuries, my safe words to be respected and responded to instantly, security buddy coming back at agreed time to collect me.

I liked his no nonsense approach. Often I need a bit more notice but my Friday evening was free so I was happy to accept.

I arrived at the dungeon at 6pm exactly and he arrived at the same moment so we went in together. I love going commando and wear sheer white tops with no bra at every opportunity so the outfit he’d requested was exactly my style.

Once we were inside the entrance to the dungeon, he paid immediately as agreed. I quickly reiterated my limits and safe words.

He made a point of reassuring me he was experienced at playing according to SSC and RACK. We spoke a bit about our respective experiences with the kind of play we had planned and I was reassured that he was the kind of partner I could trust to play safely with.

We descended into the main play area of the dungeon together!

He made me stand and confess my poor adherence to office policy regarding fraternising with colleagues and executives. I’d been fraternising in the stationary closet, on the copy machine, under the desk. I fraternised with the janitor, the boss, and an entire boardroom full of investors all before morning tea.

Bad subordinate. Disciplinary action.

He stripped me naked, made me crawl to him, throat fucked me hard, handcuffed me, blindfolded me, sodomised me with a dildo, dragged me to the spanking bench, paddled my ass, dragged me to the cross, chained me up, inserted the stainless steel anal hook in my ass and ran a rope through a ring on the hook and tied the rope off to a karabiner on a suspension point above me with enough tension in the rope so I had to stand on tip toes.

Then he played with my clit. I was very wet and excited already. I love being treated rough by an experienced and trustworthy partner. I came quickly and without asking permission.

More punishment.

By this stage I was deep in sub space and having a great time. He was also very immersed in the moment. But he still kept checking in with me and making sure I saw each implement and communicated clearly about what was happening. What happened was a lot of spanking. Hard but as agreed, without leaving marks. Then when he was ready, he bent me over, put a condom on and fucked my ass hard until he came.

I think there is a bathroom at the dungeon for cleaning up but we were close to the time limit for the dungeon rental so we just got dressed. Barely dressed in my case. He looked respectable. I looked like a half naked slut who’d just taken a beating, got ass fucked senseless and loved every minute of it.

As we left he mentioned maybe getting me to come to Paris to play at his favourite dungeon there. That’s a Oui from me!

My security buddy was there to meet me so we went to a pub over the road for one drink. I stood at the bar and told him about the session, still slippery and soaking wet from lube and my own pussy juice and still without panties with my hard nipples straining at my see through blouse.

I had another booking to get ready for so we didn’t stay long at the pub before getting an uber back to my place so I could have a much needed shower.

Elust 162 cover Marco Napoli

Elust 162

Image courtesy of Marco Napoli.

Welcome to Elust 162

Always a pleasure to read through all the sexy blog posts included in the latest edition of Elust!

Product Reviews

Mantric Rechargeable P-Spot Probe Vibrator Review

A toy review from Safelust.

Sex Work

Panty Selling

Cheating Husband Punished by Latex Mistress

A Man in Uniform with a Big Truncheon

Featured Search Results

Sexy sex workers including my policeman role play post.

Erotic Fiction

Innocent Nanny voyeurism

Ring of Fire

Turned Into A Kinky Puppy For Mistress


The nanny story from Asrai Devin is my favourite. Gave me some ideas for a session I could do with a favourite regular of mine.

Books and Movies

Mirror Secret Mirror Book Review

I’ve read some of the excerpts. Love it! What an imagination Jessica has.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Celebrating Self-exploration and its Benefits

Need more reasons to masturbate?

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Single Column Tie: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners

GUEST BLOG – Kylie Cockwhore Kinky Commentary Part One

How To Set Effective Protocol in a 24/7 Dynamic

A simple knot from Barefoot sub, a slutty guest poster on Morgan Destera’s blog and some great tips from Silken Claws on D/s.


A Man in Uniform with a Big Truncheon.

A client I’d met once before pre covid with his girlfriend was back in town from New York recently and contacted me to arrange  2 sessions.

He was alone this time and called me come to his hotel on Friday night day night.

He’s not into sex or his own orgasms. He likes latex, spanking and toys.

At the hotel I wore red latex and he used the latex shine spray to polish me.

Once I was suitably shiny, he put me over his knee, pulled my latex skirt up over my bottom and spanked me by hand.

We had a lot of fun together at the hotel but he had some ideas for activities which could be better enjoyed together in a dungeon.

So he called me again on Saturday

night and asked me to arrange a dungeon.

I booked an hourly rental dungeon belonging to a friend of mine.

The dungeon is elegant and luxuriously appointed with wall and ceiling mirrors and white wood floors. It comes equipped with fetters, whipping bench and a swing.

We met up at the dungeon and one of the first things that caught my eye was a policeman’s hat hanging with the fetish masks and hoods provided.

police hat

It matched perfectly with my truncheon dildo and a body harness so I begged him to wear the hat and harness and fuck me with the truncheon. Always been a fantasy. He loved the idea.

The big truncheon has a grip that’s easy to hold onto firmly no matter how slippery it gets so he was able to lube me up copiously and fuck me hard with the truncheon while playing with my ass with the other hand.

truncheon dildo

He put me in the sling and first put one finger, then two, three, four, up my tight asshole while he thrust the big truncheon in and out of my pussy with the other hand. Eventually he managed to get his whole fist up my ass. I was in heaven.

When it seemed like I couldn’t have any more orgasms, he chained me to the cross and plugged in the magic wand vibrator. I could barely walk afterwards. Good times!

Elust 161

Welcome to Elust 161.

Image courtesy of Vicky Vette.
So much quality content in the latest edition of Elust and the cover image of Vicky Vette
is making me wetter than that orange bikini.

Product Reviews

Funzze Remote Control Dual Stim Vibe

TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker

B-Vibe Trio Rechargeable Butt Plug Review

Harrow Bulb Depth Trainer From John Thomas Toys Review

I’ve heard good things about clit suckers. Shame that one didn’t live up to the hype.

Erotic Fiction

Red Rose – first chapter of MIRROR SECRET MIRROR


Matthew meets Jamie

Behind the Lens: A Tale of Intimacy and Artistry

I especially liked Liz X’s bossy photographer.

Erotic Non Fiction

Cock Sucking – An Oral Fixation

“block my nostrils with your weighty sac.” Yes, please!

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Why Lifestyle D/s?

In a Pinch

Male Chastity: Everything You Need to Know

Do you know where I like getting pinched?

Sex Work

Gangbang Fantasy

A Duo with Ruth and Her Habibi

Why do we Need a Search Engine for Independent Sex Worker Websites?

I’d love to see more sex workers getting enough clients directly from our websites so we don’t rely on escort directories. The top directories in USA, Eros and tryst are best known for handing sex workers real identities over to the feds and taking months to verify new accounts respectively. Here in UK the top directory, adultwork, looks like a website from the 90s and has the worst customer service of any business on the planet. Personal websites are the future. Make sure yours is indexed on sex worker search.

State of the World

Is It Time to Reevaluate Our Spending on Pleasure and Entertainment?

You can never have too many sex toys.

Books and Movies

Recent Reading

Books on polyamory.

Writing about Writing

Adventures in Writing: Learning Lessons from Three Regrets of my Writing Life

Lessons from Mischa Eliot. She has a lot to teach us.


Miami Girl

I pictured the girl in my imagination as Salma Hayek doing her snake dance in From Dusk til Dawn but in the shower and without the snake.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sexy things that are really NOT that sexy!

Whipped cream maybe. Anything sticky, no thank you.