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Elust 143

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Image courtesy of Milady and Oz.

Welcome to Elust 143.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #144? Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Erotic Fiction

Oh God, I’m Cumming
Cuck Envy
Daddy Comfort
Punishment
The Cycle
The Dinner Date
Witchy Pegging Session- A Domination Duo
Locktober – Trick or Treat
Titrate My Urges: Chapter 1 (Untitled, Unpublished Novel Excerpt)

Erotic Non Fiction

Creating The Best Day
The Queen Will Mindfuck You Now…
Hard to get out of bed, sometimes
Anal Action Duo with Vanessa and Mr & Mrs S Couple
The Doctor Will See You Now
Kinky Devils. Torturegarden Halloween Party

State of the World

Sex Work Is Work – But So Many Forces Are Working Against It Shame That Is Not Our Own

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

8 Small Penis Humiliation Ideas To Make Subs Cry
Honey Birdette Spreader Bar

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

4 Toys That Stimulate the Internal Clitoris
Ghosting, Breadcrumbs, and Gaslighting
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Bondage_SpreaderBar

Honey Birdette Spreader Bar

 

I ordered myself a Spreader Bar from the Honey Birdette website and it came in the post.

Their rose gold products are beautiful! I have the matching cuffs and collar with leash.

Some of my regulars have already started thinking of how they want to use the cuffs, collar and spreader bar on me.

One guy wants me to lie on my back with the spreader bar running through the collar loop and my wrists and ankles all cuffed to the bar like a hogtie position.

I’m sure I’ll be flexible enough to get in that position but not sure how long I’ll be able to hold it!

 

Elust 142

 

Image courtesy of Dirk Hooper.

Welcome to Elust 142.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #143? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

Poetry

The Man with the Golden Tongue

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Is it Normal for Couples to Enjoy Cuckolding

Exercise and Sexual Health

Erotic Non-Fiction

Bukkake Party Babes

King Cocktopus. Duo with a Sexy Couple and Alissa Thorne

Uberkinky Violator. DP Fun with Toys

Sex Sling

Sex Toy Collection

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Let’s talk Prostate: A guide for those new to Prostate Play

Non-binary Honorific Terms for A Dominant

The Mystery That is Madam Maeve

Erotic Fiction

When Friends Share

Rich Old Bitch

Wicked Wednesday: Droit de Seigneur 11

Couple of Boys

OTK

Blogging

Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers

 

Elust 136

 

Sex Sling

 

One of my regulars would like to buy me a sex sling and he asked me to choose which one I’d like.

I’ve wanted The Red VIP leather sling set from Regulation ever since I first saw it on their site a few years ago.

It’s a really beautiful sling. The whole thing is made from very thick, strong leather connected with stainless steel rivets. It can support up to 200kg and it’s built to last.

I’ve been on a few slings in different dungeons and at fetish parties and some are too loose and strappy and not very comfortable. Some only support the lower back and shoulders but have no neck support.

The Red, has a padded seat and back rest and a pillow to support the neck and head. It’s super comfortable and easy to get in and out of.

My dream sling!

Unfortunately, Regulation doesn’t have them in stock but he’s contacted another European distributor and just waiting to hear back.

Can’t wait to get fucked with my legs spread in the ankle straps. The swinging motion really amplifies the impact when you’re hanging in a sling getting pounded. I’m getting wet just thinking about it.

Elust 141

Welcome to Elust 141.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #142? Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Erotic Fiction

Coffee Break

Summer Holiday pt.6 – Never on Sunday

All I Need

Erotic Non-Fiction

Hotwife Filming Couple in Portugal

Party Chat: Nerves and a Decision

Honey Birdette BDSM Cuffs and Collar

Fly Me to You Tour to Krakow, Poland

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Anal Prep: An Illustrated Guide by @BlindJaw

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

I Could Have Been Over Him By Now

My Most Expensive Sex Toys: Are They Worth It?!

Books and Movies

Lady Chatterley’s Lover by D. H. Lawrence

Elust 141

Fly Me to You Tour to Krakow, Poland

My Polish Playmate has invited me to come and visit him in Krakow.

Last time we met was in Dublin, Ireland.

This time I’m excited to go have some Polish kielbasa sausage. And whipped cream out of my ass for his dessert.

I mentioned on fetlife that I’ll be in Krakow and another kinky boy suggested I visit Salon Black & White. The salon has a sex cinema, go-go shows, peep shows, a sauna, steam room and jacuzzi and a bar with topless waitresses. It even has an SM mini dungeon.

I’ll be there!

Elust 140

Welcome to Elust 140.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #141? Start with the rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Erotic Fiction

Erotic Non-Fiction

Books and Movies

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Elust 140

Elust 139

Welcome to Elust 139.

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #140? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Books and Movies

Maitresse (1976): The Celluloid Dungeon

Erotic Non-Fiction

Erotic Fiction

Thoughts & Advice on Kink and Fetish

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Kinky Dublin Tour

My regular client booked me to fly to Dublin and spend a few days there for some kinky fun.

He’s been shopping on Uberkinky and bought some new toys especially for our time together.

The Thigh Sling With Wrist Cuffs looks like fun.

He also got a spreader bar to keep my legs wide open. He loves having me immobilised and in a position where he can use my ass.

spreader bar

We’re going to do some water sports too so he bought this inflatable nuru mat.

inflatable nuru mat

Should be a very wet, wild and messy session. Looking forward to it!

 

gangbangs and bukkake parties

Gangbangs and Bukkake Parties

My master, Oz, and I have hosted dozens of gangbang and bukkake parties via Fetlife.

This coming event at the end of this month will be our first party since all the covid lockdowns.

Can’t wait 🙂

It’s not easy to get multiple guys to show up at the right place and the right time.

Usually less than 10% of guys who click “I’m going” on the event on fetlife actually show up.

And from hundreds of messages on fabswingers, only a few of those show up.

We limit the events to a maximum of ten and guarantee they can attend if they pay in advance.

We have some lovely, reliable regulars. I have nicknames for all my favourites.

We ask the guys to assemble outside a pub nearby, walk there, collect them and lead them back to our flat so Oz can run ahead, go open the door, make sure no neighbours are entering or leaving and quickly usher the guys in.

I don’t reply individually to all the messages on fet or fab. There are just too many and too few of them are genuine. It’s enough to list the day, time and meeting point on the event details and send a quick message to say thank you to those who pay in advance.

So far out of a few dozen events, they’ve all gone well. Guys have all behaved themselves and had fun.

Oz is there to hand out condoms and lube, drinks, and guide the action enough so that nobody gets left out.

The event listings do unfortunately attract a lot of timewasters who just want to send pointless messages and will never show up to the actual event. But the guys who do show up to the events have all been awesome. Oz and I have made good friends with the regulars who keep coming back.

It’s not an easy thing to organise but can be great fun and profitable.

Oz likes seeing me being spitroasted and taking DP. My favourite part is always the bukkake. I feel like such a dirty girl looking up and seeing a circle of guys standing around me all jerking off and cumming all over my face and in my mouth. Love it!