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Erotic Body Slide Massage

I met with a gentleman for the first time last week who asked me for an erotic body slide massage.

My speciality!

He arrived at the agreed time at my incall location in Marylebone near Bond Street tube.

I buzzed him into my building and greeted him at the door to my flat already naked as he requested. I hid behind the door as I let him in for his discretion and mine in case my neighbours walked past at the exact wrong moment.

After I’d poured a small bottle of water into  glass for him, we’d had had a quick chat to get to know each other, sorted out the paperwork, he went to my bathroom to freshen up and I got my warmed oils ready.

When he came back from the bathroom I held him, kissed and caressed him and walked him to my king size bed covered in a fitted rubberized, water and oil proof sheet from Sheets of San Francisco.

I also have a massage table which is great for really leaning with my weight and pressing down on someone’s body supported by a firm surface for the maximum effect of a therapeutic massage. But for a sex body slide, the bed is better.

Once he was on his front I massaged his back, neck and shoulders firmly with plenty of oil and made sure he could feel my nipples on his back as I leaned forward to reach every inch of his body with long, slow strokes with my hands, forearms and elbows for those spots that need the most pressure to ease out the tension.

Once he was fully relaxed, I began to caress between his thighs, stroking his buttocks, paying special attention to his perineum, balls and around his ass. Some guys like to receive a prostate massage at this point but my new friend was very happy just to feel my fingers lightly tease outside of his butthole.

By the time I started the body slide, I could feel that he was very ready and eager to roll over and have sex but I teased him a little longer until he couldn’t wait another second.

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Elust 158

Image courtesy of Pilen.

Elust features an incredible selection of quality sex blog posts in Elust 158.

It was a pleasure reading all the sexy blog posts included this month.

Whenever I look at my analytics, I see a lot of new views coming from Elust re-posts.

Participating regularly in Elust is a brilliant way to reach a wider audience and to help promote talented bloggers.

Thank you to Oz for including my post and for everything he does for the sex blogging community. I know he dedicates a lot of time and effort to curating and publishing Elust and even donates a generous prize every month to encourage collaboration and co-promotion.

Erotic Non Fiction

Why on earth wouldn’t I want to live the rest of my life as a woman?

Thoughts on gender and sexuality from Girlieboy.

Friday, I’m in Love

Mr Friday sounds like a perfect masochistic sub for Mistress Victory.

His Fingers

Got to love a handy man with sexy hands.

Erotic Fiction

Working From Home Nightmare

A video conference meeting gets an eyeful of Alissa Thorne.

Dating Isn’t So Bad After All

A promising date for Barefoot Sub.

Baby Girl Tease

Asrai Devin presents an obedient sub and her strict Dom.

Sex Work

Theatre and a Threesome. A Duo Date with Mackenzie Beckles

Hellga has the perfect end to the perfect night out. A bisexual threesome!

Eiffel Towers and Assgasms. Duo with Goddess Cleo and FoXtress

Oz’s adventures with two strapped colleagues and a very accommodating bottom.

Playing with Myself with my New Thrusting Dildo

My new best friend!

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Propinkup Bunny Elf Clitoral Sucker

A toy that proves to be better than expected reviewed by Morgan Destera.

John Thomas Toys POD Platinum Silicone Stretcher Review

What a monster! Joanne reviews.

Cosmo Flogger

A shame this flogger is so flimsy. It looks beautiful.

New Fleshlight Boost Line-Up

The latest male masturbators presented by Safelust.

Books and Movies

Thoughts on Anne Rice’s ‘The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty’

A book review thanks to Mirror Secret Mirror.

O Fantasma (2000): The Celluloid Dungeon

History of BDSM with a movie review.

Blogging

Sayonara 2022, I’m so thrilled to see you go

A 2023 much better than 2022 is on the cards for Mischa Eliot

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

EVEN MORE Truths about Dating as a Sex Industry Professional

Super Smash Cache blogs about dating.

Quality is the key

Master’s Pleasing Bitch shares her thoughts on Body Count, the total number of sexual partners.

Awesome Sex

The key to great sex according to Musings of a Switch.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Shiny Things

Hannah McKnight looks gorgeous in an outfit from En Femme.

Chastity and FemDom Tasks List Story – Part 5

Two Mistresses dominate a pair of slaves.

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Playing with Myself with my New Thrusting Dildo

 

Sometimes a girl’s just got to have fun so that’s when I reach for my toy box and entertain myself with whichever toys take my fancy. This time it was my new Thrusting dildo and my doxy wand.

The thrusting dildo is made by Funzze. Highly recommended. Here’s Oz’s review of it.

If you have someone to lend a hand, it’s much easier to handle one toy than two. Reaching down to keep a grip on both of these kind of works but it’s much easier to relax and focus on all the sensations if the thrusting dildo is held in someone else’s hand or suctioned onto a smooth hard surface.

Luckily I had a man handy but I did try out the suction cup and it works perfectly.

I have a theory that DP would be even better. Who wants to come and test that theory? For science!

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Elust 152

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Welcome to Elust 152.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.
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Body Talk and Sexual Health

Hard To Come By- Barefoot’s Orgasm Journey

Lots of orgasms! Wishing many more Os for Barefoot Sub.

Gauging up

Stay tuned for bigger and bigger genital jewellery.

Sex Work

La Belle Horizontale

One night in Paris with Lilly.

Foxy Couple

Oz is the man for MMF.

Birthday Gangbang

Another year, another 12 loads of cum on my face.

I love Roleplay

Me too.

Erotic Fiction

Stolen Love from Russia

I think she understands more than she’s letting on. My prediction = These boys are getting played.

Moon Feather: Part 48: Terms and Conditions

That Joey is a naughty girl. My kind of girl.

Strangers in a Bar

A quicky with Ambyr.

Bedroom Eyes 7

Jerusalem Mortimer really knows how to erotica.

Tossing His Caber – Highland Spanking Romance

Thanks Tabitha for expanding my kink horizons. Always loved Vikings. Now I have a thing for highlanders too.

Erotic Non Fiction

Teaching Tommy

Mistress Victory teaches Tommy a lesson.

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Nosakki Clitoral Stimulator with Thrusting Bullet Vibrator

Morgan Destera with some enticing new toys.

13 Best Fun Factory Sex Toys (& 5 I dislike)

Super Smash Cache with even more fun toys.

Books, TV and Movies

Review of Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room

I have no room for a sex room. Maybe a sex swing.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty’s Guide to Building Your Own Sex Room

More sex room.

All in the contract

Julie takes us through the fine print.

Living Rent Free in my Head

Lillith talks past traumas and recent bruises. The bruises look great. Wishing for her healing from the older wounds.

BDSM Collars: Symbolism & Collaring Ceremonies

Cara Sutra talks collars.

Writing about writing

Sex, Strawberries and Cream

Simone Francis for dessert

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Birthday Gangbang

 

It’s my birthday this month.

I decided as part of my birthday celebrations to have a gangbang event with Oz.

I won’t say which day my birthday is exactly, but I’m Leo the lion.

Leos are meant to be Vivacious, theatrical, and passionate.

Sounds about right!

Leos are said to love basking in the spotlight and celebrating themselves.

I think gangbangs are very theatrical. I get to take centre stage and be the focus of so much combined sexual energy. I love it. The slapping sounds of all the guys wanking furiously to produce cumshots to shoot all over my face for the bukkake finale sounds a lot like applause. I’ll happily bask in their adulation. And their cum.

As always, we’re advertising the event via Fetlife.

Some of the guys who’ve been regular attendees of many of my gangbangs and bukkake parties in the past have already contacted me to say they will attend.

Last time we hosted an event was about 6 months ago and it was for Bukkake only.

Looking forward to seeing some familiar faces, and cocks, and meeting some sexy new gangbangers too.

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Elust 146

 

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Welcome to Elust 146

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

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Erotic Fiction

The Baker’s Wife

Droit de Seigneur 27

Strangers on a Commute

Precious Juice

Erotic Non Fiction

CUCKADOODLEDO!

My New Strap On

Cuckold Husband in Chastity Buys His Wife a Pearl Necklace

Hands

My Bukkake Events are Back!

New Slave into Ballbusting and Small Dick Humiliation

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

6 Sustainable Tips For an Eco-friendly Sex Life

What Type of Vibrator is Right For You?

The Power of a Kiss

Bookmarking: a strategy for prioritizing intimacy

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

A Goddess to Tease You Into Her Trap

Body Talk

H is for Hair Down There and Everywhere, Still Don’t Care

The Clitoral ‘Erection’

Writing about writing

Episodic

Write the Erotica You Want to See In the World

Sex-Work

Advice For When Booking an Independent Escort

How To Be Anonymous in the Adult Industry 2022

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My Bukkake Events are Back!

 

I finally got back on Fetlife Events and listed a new Bukkake Party!

I’ve been looking forward to this for years.

The last one was about 2 years ago and I haven’t had the opportunity since.

Now restrictions have eased and its possible once more to invite 5 or 10 guys to cum on my face.

So Happy 🙂

bukkake is back

In the past I’ve allowed anyone to rsvp to my events but what tends to happen is I get 40 or 50 guys RSVP and only 5 or 10 show up. I thinl a lot of the other 40 or 45 guys were just putting themselves on the rsvp list with no intention of attending the parties and just wanted to send me pointless messages for the thrill of chatting to a real woman on the Internet.

So this time I set it so people could only rsvp if I manually approved them.

The condition to have an rsvp request approved was that they had to either have showed up to one of my past events or they had to pay in advance for their ticket by PayPal.

Then all the messages I got from guys I’d never met before, I just replied with a copy and paste message telling them how to pay for their ticket.

Two new guys paid up front for tickets and the rest were all regulars. The regular guys all paid cash on the day.

Oz and I went to meet them outside a nearby pub at the agreed time and brought them back to our flat. We picked up some drinks from the off license on the way.

It’s more discreet to bring them in at the same time, otherwise if we give them the address it’s too many people ringing the buzzer and opening and closing the door. We don’t want to bother our neighbours.

I put some music on when we got inside and Oz got everyone drinks. The guests took turns to go wash up quickly in the bathroom and then when everyone was ready I got down on my knees and started sucking.

I was so turned on with all those cocks surrounding me I had to beg Oz to pass me my doxy wand so I could play with myself while the guests took turns face-fucking me.

They chatted amongst themselves while they waited their turn. Mostly about other events they’d been to. I couldn’t really concentrate enough to follow the details and couldn’t say much since I always had a cock in my throat but I did ask Oz to make a note of the names of some of the events they were talking about that I liked the sound of.

One of my favourite regulars was there and he suggested we should do a gangbang event for Valentines Day. Good idea!

I’d really like a piss gangbang where all the guys use me for a toilet. Ideally at a dungeon with a wet room like Facility X.

Let me know in the comments if you like the idea of the the Valentines gangbang or the Piss bang or if there are any events in London for greedy girls that you recommend.

Elust 143

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Image courtesy of Milady and Oz.

Welcome to Elust 143.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #144? Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Erotic Fiction

Oh God, I’m Cumming
Cuck Envy
Daddy Comfort
Punishment
The Cycle
The Dinner Date
Witchy Pegging Session- A Domination Duo
Locktober – Trick or Treat
Titrate My Urges: Chapter 1 (Untitled, Unpublished Novel Excerpt)

Erotic Non Fiction

Creating The Best Day
The Queen Will Mindfuck You Now…
Hard to get out of bed, sometimes
Anal Action Duo with Vanessa and Mr & Mrs S Couple
The Doctor Will See You Now
Kinky Devils. Torturegarden Halloween Party

State of the World

Sex Work Is Work – But So Many Forces Are Working Against It Shame That Is Not Our Own

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

8 Small Penis Humiliation Ideas To Make Subs Cry
Honey Birdette Spreader Bar

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

4 Toys That Stimulate the Internal Clitoris
Ghosting, Breadcrumbs, and Gaslighting
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Honey Birdette Spreader Bar

 

I ordered myself a Spreader Bar from the Honey Birdette website and it came in the post.

Their rose gold products are beautiful! I have the matching cuffs and collar with leash.

Some of my regulars have already started thinking of how they want to use the cuffs, collar and spreader bar on me.

One guy wants me to lie on my back with the spreader bar running through the collar loop and my wrists and ankles all cuffed to the bar like a hogtie position.

I’m sure I’ll be flexible enough to get in that position but not sure how long I’ll be able to hold it!

 

Elust 142

 

Image courtesy of Dirk Hooper.

Welcome to Elust 142.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #143? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

Poetry

The Man with the Golden Tongue

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Is it Normal for Couples to Enjoy Cuckolding

Exercise and Sexual Health

Erotic Non-Fiction

Bukkake Party Babes

King Cocktopus. Duo with a Sexy Couple and Alissa Thorne

Uberkinky Violator. DP Fun with Toys

Sex Sling

Sex Toy Collection

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Let’s talk Prostate: A guide for those new to Prostate Play

Non-binary Honorific Terms for A Dominant

The Mystery That is Madam Maeve

Erotic Fiction

When Friends Share

Rich Old Bitch

Wicked Wednesday: Droit de Seigneur 11

Couple of Boys

OTK

Blogging

Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers

 

Elust 136

 

Sex Sling

 

One of my regulars would like to buy me a sex sling and he asked me to choose which one I’d like.

I’ve wanted The Red VIP leather sling set from Regulation ever since I first saw it on their site a few years ago.

It’s a really beautiful sling. The whole thing is made from very thick, strong leather connected with stainless steel rivets. It can support up to 200kg and it’s built to last.

I’ve been on a few slings in different dungeons and at fetish parties and some are too loose and strappy and not very comfortable. Some only support the lower back and shoulders but have no neck support.

The Red, has a padded seat and back rest and a pillow to support the neck and head. It’s super comfortable and easy to get in and out of.

My dream sling!

Unfortunately, Regulation doesn’t have them in stock but he’s contacted another European distributor and just waiting to hear back.

Can’t wait to get fucked with my legs spread in the ankle straps. The swinging motion really amplifies the impact when you’re hanging in a sling getting pounded. I’m getting wet just thinking about it.

Elust 141

Welcome to Elust 141.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #142? Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Erotic Fiction

Coffee Break

Summer Holiday pt.6 – Never on Sunday

All I Need

Erotic Non-Fiction

Hotwife Filming Couple in Portugal

Party Chat: Nerves and a Decision

Honey Birdette BDSM Cuffs and Collar

Fly Me to You Tour to Krakow, Poland

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Anal Prep: An Illustrated Guide by @BlindJaw

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

I Could Have Been Over Him By Now

My Most Expensive Sex Toys: Are They Worth It?!

Books and Movies

Lady Chatterley’s Lover by D. H. Lawrence

Elust 141

Fly Me to You Tour to Krakow, Poland

My Polish Playmate has invited me to come and visit him in Krakow.

Last time we met was in Dublin, Ireland.

This time I’m excited to go have some Polish kielbasa sausage. And whipped cream out of my ass for his dessert.

I mentioned on fetlife that I’ll be in Krakow and another kinky boy suggested I visit Salon Black & White. The salon has a sex cinema, go-go shows, peep shows, a sauna, steam room and jacuzzi and a bar with topless waitresses. It even has an SM mini dungeon.

I’ll be there!

Elust 140

Welcome to Elust 140.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #141? Start with the rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Erotic Fiction

Erotic Non-Fiction

Books and Movies

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Elust 140

Elust 139

Welcome to Elust 139.

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #140? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Books and Movies

Maitresse (1976): The Celluloid Dungeon

Erotic Non-Fiction

Erotic Fiction

Thoughts & Advice on Kink and Fetish

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Kinky Dublin Tour

My regular client booked me to fly to Dublin and spend a few days there for some kinky fun.

He’s been shopping on Uberkinky and bought some new toys especially for our time together.

The Thigh Sling With Wrist Cuffs looks like fun.

He also got a spreader bar to keep my legs wide open. He loves having me immobilised and in a position where he can use my ass.

spreader bar

We’re going to do some water sports too so he bought this inflatable nuru mat.

inflatable nuru mat

Should be a very wet, wild and messy session. Looking forward to it!

 

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Gangbangs and Bukkake Parties

My master, Oz, and I have hosted dozens of gangbang and bukkake parties via Fetlife.

This coming event at the end of this month will be our first party since all the covid lockdowns.

Can’t wait 🙂

It’s not easy to get multiple guys to show up at the right place and the right time.

Usually less than 10% of guys who click “I’m going” on the event on fetlife actually show up.

And from hundreds of messages on fabswingers, only a few of those show up.

We limit the events to a maximum of ten and guarantee they can attend if they pay in advance.

We have some lovely, reliable regulars. I have nicknames for all my favourites.

We ask the guys to assemble outside a pub nearby, walk there, collect them and lead them back to our flat so Oz can run ahead, go open the door, make sure no neighbours are entering or leaving and quickly usher the guys in.

I don’t reply individually to all the messages on fet or fab. There are just too many and too few of them are genuine. It’s enough to list the day, time and meeting point on the event details and send a quick message to say thank you to those who pay in advance.

So far out of a few dozen events, they’ve all gone well. Guys have all behaved themselves and had fun.

Oz is there to hand out condoms and lube, drinks, and guide the action enough so that nobody gets left out.

The event listings do unfortunately attract a lot of timewasters who just want to send pointless messages and will never show up to the actual event. But the guys who do show up to the events have all been awesome. Oz and I have made good friends with the regulars who keep coming back.

It’s not an easy thing to organise but can be great fun and profitable.

Oz likes seeing me being spitroasted and taking DP. My favourite part is always the bukkake. I feel like such a dirty girl looking up and seeing a circle of guys standing around me all jerking off and cumming all over my face and in my mouth. Love it!