Welcome to Elust 196
Cover image courtesy of Miss Parker.
Gotta love Elust for corrupting me every month with all the bad ideas I get from reading everyone’s sexy blog posts.
Erotic Fiction
Sugarbutch, Supine: A Jealousy Play Erotica Story
Jealousy-fuelled D/s fantasy.
Jessica Lansdown, Peeping Tom
Looky-Loo.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, Transfer Post – How Do I Feel?
Longing, uncertainty, and the emotional tightrope of an affair.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
ThatGrrl, A Dominant Woman is Not a Fetish
Dommes are people with desires and boundaries, not just roles for someone else’s fantasy.
Body Talk and Sexual Health
Fruity Cams, How to jerk off longer
Keep things going well past the usual finish line.
State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Safe? Privacy, Tracking & Security Explained
What cam sites actually see, track, and reveal, separating real risks from common misconceptions.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Temporality and the Ecology of Desire: How Ritual Transforms Time, Pleasure, and Attentional Economy
Slowing everything down and turning desire into something far more expansive and intentional.
Product Reviews
Oz Bigdownunder, I’ll Let You Lick My Lollypop. Funzze Candy Cane Vibrator
Fiddy!
Liz X, Tabletop Review: The simplyjoy 10-Inch Dual Density Dildo
That’s a big ‘un.
Spices of Lust, VVD Rider Desire Review
A rideable toy that promises hands-free fun, tested in both solo and shared scenarios.
Sex Work
Evie + Axel, Anxiety around sexual performance
Performance anxiety.
Mistress Sophie, How Best To Approach A Pro-Domme, (Some Helpful Do’s And Don’t’s)
How not to embarrass/make a nuisance of, yourself when contacting a Domme.
Sex Worker Search, Clients. Are you more like A? Or B?
A please.
Sandra, “Will abuse u and leave marks but make sure u enjoy!”
Bruises please.
Mx Valentina, Maid Fantasy. With a Twist.
A personal and psychological take on how a simple aesthetic can flip power dynamics in unexpected ways.
Vivienne Parker, Swingers Club
I don’t mind a swingers club but you may find it’s less eye’s wide shut and more eye’s wide open watching out for non consensual groping or accidentally stepping on a used condom in bare feet.
Milady, Rendezvous in Paris with a Butt Plug
Short and suite.
Hellga, Bunkhaus Dungeon Femdom Session
That sex winch is badass.
Books and Movies
O Miss Pearl, “What Fury Brings” by Tricia Levenseller [Femdom Book Review]
Femdom fantasy novel.
The History of BDSM, Box Hill (2020) by Adam Mars-Jones
Hold on tight.