Monthly Archives: September 2024

Vivienne Black Elust 177

Elust 177 Glass Dildos, Body Paint, Sex and Zen

Cover image courtesy of Vivienne Black. Awesome pic. The rest of the photos from the same shoot are great too. Click the link to her twitter to see the photo set.

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

A playful look at threesomes and how to make it work for everyone involved.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Mixing pop music and a cheeky drink with a bit of seduction.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Stay off the asparagus.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Beautifully written and fascinating subject.

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Shopaholic.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

The hidden struggles.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Purest gold.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Calling out dodgy practices we all know escort directories engage in. Selling our personal details to advertisers and handing our identities to the authorities without requiring a subpoena.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Kinky play spaces.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

How many chapters do you think Sensei’s chastity and virtue are going to remain intact for? My money is on one. By chapter 4 he’s going to be balls deep in consenting adult Japanese women. I hope.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Get the buzz.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Glass dildos with a twist.

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

My Queendom for an indestructible vibrator. Although it is waterproof, quiet, cordless and powerful.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Boundaries are sexy and essential for better connections.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

That body paint looks amazing!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

Sex and Zen.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Sneak peek into long-term power exchange.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

The last one sounds good. Surprise picnic. Preferably including a powerful, rumbly, wand vibrator somewhere in the picnic basket.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Shout-out to the year’s best steamy romance novel.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Exploring Cronenberg’s freaky vision of future sexuality.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Looks like my kind of movie. Just found it on Prime. Ok, I know what I’m watching later.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

I, for one, welcome our new language model overlords.

LAM

LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Last Sunday, I decided to visit the London Alternative Market (LAM) at their exciting new venue, Sway Bar near Holborn.

For those who aren’t familiar, LAM is a fantastic monthly event that brings together a vibrant community of people interested in kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles.

It’s a great place to explore new toys, meet like-minded individuals, and get inspired for creative play.

This month, they moved to a new venue, Sway Bar near Holborn, and I was eager to see how it compared to the previous one at Revolution Bar.

It looks like Revolution has closed down entirely which is a shame. I had some fun times there. The play-space during the LAM after parties in the old bank vaults was legendary.

First Impressions of the New Venue

Walking into the new space, I was immediately struck by how spacious and well-organized it was. The layout upstairs is very open. There are some stalls around one side of the room but most of the upstairs space is seating and the bar. This makes it much easier to get to the bar than the old venue and you can see everyone from anywhere in the room which makes it much easier to see any familiar faces in the crowd.

Downstairs is where most of the market stalls are.

I particularly appreciated the separate areas for socializing and shopping. In the old venue, these were often mixed together, which could make things feel a bit cramped. Here, there was a clear distinction, allowing for a more relaxed shopping experience and a more intimate social atmosphere.

Stalls That Caught My Eye

I love the designs by Freebound Studio. I saw a vegan leather and rose gold collar I liked and also a heavy rose gold choker chain. With my matching rose gold cuffs securing my wrists behind my back, my spreader bar on my ankles and that choker chain on a tightening leash, the breath play orgasms you could force out of me with my Doxy wand. mmm.

Final Thoughts

Overall, my visit to LAM at the new venue was an absolute delight. The space was more accommodating, the variety of stalls was impressive, and I left with so many new ideas for my sessions. If you haven’t visited LAM yet, I highly recommend it. It’s a great opportunity to explore new toys, meet like-minded individuals, and get inspired. I can’t wait to return next month and see what new delights await!