Monthly Archives: September 2024

Vivienne Black Elust 177

Elust 177

Cover image courtesy of Vivienne Black

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

LAM

LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Last Sunday, I decided to visit the London Alternative Market (LAM) at their exciting new venue, Sway Bar near Holborn.

For those who aren’t familiar, LAM is a fantastic monthly event that brings together a vibrant community of people interested in kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles.

It’s a great place to explore new toys, meet like-minded individuals, and get inspired for creative play.

This month, they moved to a new venue, Sway Bar near Holborn, and I was eager to see how it compared to the previous one at Revolution Bar.

It looks like Revolution has closed down entirely which is a shame. I had some fun times there. The play-space during the LAM after parties in the old bank vaults was legendary.

First Impressions of the New Venue

Walking into the new space, I was immediately struck by how spacious and well-organized it was. The layout upstairs is very open. There are some stalls around one side of the room but most of the upstairs space is seating and the bar. This makes it much easier to get to the bar than the old venue and you can see everyone from anywhere in the room which makes it much easier to see any familiar faces in the crowd.

Downstairs is where most of the market stalls are.

I particularly appreciated the separate areas for socializing and shopping. In the old venue, these were often mixed together, which could make things feel a bit cramped. Here, there was a clear distinction, allowing for a more relaxed shopping experience and a more intimate social atmosphere.

Stalls That Caught My Eye

I love the designs by Freebound Studio. I saw a vegan leather and rose gold collar I liked and also a heavy rose gold choker chain. With my matching rose gold cuffs securing my wrists behind my back, my spreader bar on my ankles and that choker chain on a tightening leash, the breath play orgasms you could force out of me with my Doxy wand. mmm.

Final Thoughts

Overall, my visit to LAM at the new venue was an absolute delight. The space was more accommodating, the variety of stalls was impressive, and I left with so many new ideas for my sessions. If you haven’t visited LAM yet, I highly recommend it. It’s a great opportunity to explore new toys, meet like-minded individuals, and get inspired. I can’t wait to return next month and see what new delights await!