Author Archives: Sandra

Elust 178 cover Anais Leigh

Elust 178

Welcome to Elust 178

Cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

Adult flicks.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Getting zen.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Solo time.

Betty’s Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Types of orgasms you might not have had… yet.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Bringing old-fashioned manners into the bedroom.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Zen again.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

Robogasmic.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

He’s going to spank someone soon.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

Or do.

Jasmine Gold, A Nun’s Humiliation

Diabolical.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn’t Know Existed (2024)

High tech wank.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo’s Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker


More tech wank.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Bonsoir sexy.

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

This is cool. Mistress Kim Rub is a legend.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

Good to know.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker


I remember when I was this new and having the same thoughts.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Oz and I.

Nuit d’Or, Self-care For Dominants

Interesting. I’m a fan of this blog and of Nuit.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Lucky sissy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Horrifying.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Loved the poem and the visuals.

Sandra with flogger

Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz.

Not too long ago, Mr Z, got in touch with Oz Bigdownunder. He was flying into London from the USA and had requested a submissive female escort to join himself and Oz for a duo session. Oz invited me to the duo and I happily accepted.

The Arrival

The plan was simple: Mr Z would arrive at Heathrow, check into his hotel, freshen up, and we’d meet him at the agreed time. Oz and I shared a taxi to the hotel, arriving just on time. As often happens with long-haul flights, Mr Z’s arrival was delayed. We waited in the lobby, exchanging texts with him as he updated us on his progress. It wasn’t long before a handsome businessman with an unmistakable American accent strolled through the lobby, wheeling his suitcase behind him.

He checked in with ease, and soon we got the all-clear to head up to his room.

Setting the Scene

Mr Z was polite, friendly, and clearly had a plan in mind. After some small talk, he handed us both our envelopes. We each took turns to freshen up. I slipped into a PVC mini dress, something I knew he was eager to see, while Oz and Mr Z got naked.

I laid out the toys I had brought with me on the sofa, and we began to discuss Mr Z’s preferences. We talked openly about what he wanted to see, do, and experience. We negotiated consent and boundaries easily enough—Mr Z had a clear idea of his desires, and although he didn’t consider himself an experienced dom, his communication was confident and thoughtful.

The Fun Begins

It didn’t take long for the atmosphere to shift from casual to intimate. A playful grope here, a teasing slap there, and soon we were ready to dive into the experience.

Mr Z and Oz took turns dominating me, an alternating rhythm of face-fucking and flogging. Three or four strokes of the flogger on my ass followed by deep, firm thrusts into my throat, then they’d swap. The blend of sensations was electrifying, and the dynamic between the three of us felt natural and exciting.

After some time, things escalated. I found myself being spit-roasted, then double-penetrated. My happy place. Getting railed between two big cocks.

Calm at the Brown Eye of the Storm

As the session progressed, it became clear that the long flight and our shared exertions were catching up with Mr Z. At my encouragement, he lay down, enjoying a moment of relaxation while I gave him a nice, deep, sloppy rim job and reach around.

With the hour drawing to a close, I could feel that I had Mr Z right at the edge of the moment of no return. Oz could see this too and had been stroking himself in time with my tender ministrations to Mr Z’s butthole so he was ready to cum at a minutes notice. As the timing aligned perfectly, I kneeled down, requesting they finish on my face. Within moments, they stood over me, jerking themselves off, and soon enough, they both accessorised me with thick strands of pearl necklace.

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Elust 177 Glass Dildos, Body Paint, Sex and Zen

Cover image courtesy of Vivienne Black. Awesome pic. The rest of the photos from the same shoot are great too. Click the link to her twitter to see the photo set.

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

A playful look at threesomes and how to make it work for everyone involved.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Mixing pop music and a cheeky drink with a bit of seduction.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Stay off the asparagus.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Beautifully written and fascinating subject.

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Shopaholic.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

The hidden struggles.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Purest gold.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Calling out dodgy practices we all know escort directories engage in. Selling our personal details to advertisers and handing our identities to the authorities without requiring a subpoena.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Kinky play spaces.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

How many chapters do you think Sensei’s chastity and virtue are going to remain intact for? My money is on one. By chapter 4 he’s going to be balls deep in consenting adult Japanese women. I hope.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Get the buzz.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Glass dildos with a twist.

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

My Queendom for an indestructible vibrator. Although it is waterproof, quiet, cordless and powerful.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Boundaries are sexy and essential for better connections.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

That body paint looks amazing!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

Sex and Zen.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Sneak peek into long-term power exchange.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

The last one sounds good. Surprise picnic. Preferably including a powerful, rumbly, wand vibrator somewhere in the picnic basket.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Shout-out to the year’s best steamy romance novel.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Exploring Cronenberg’s freaky vision of future sexuality.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Looks like my kind of movie. Just found it on Prime. Ok, I know what I’m watching later.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

I, for one, welcome our new language model overlords.

LAM

LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Last Sunday, I decided to visit the London Alternative Market (LAM) at their exciting new venue, Sway Bar near Holborn.

For those who aren’t familiar, LAM is a fantastic monthly event that brings together a vibrant community of people interested in kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles.

It’s a great place to explore new toys, meet like-minded individuals, and get inspired for creative play.

This month, they moved to a new venue, Sway Bar near Holborn, and I was eager to see how it compared to the previous one at Revolution Bar.

It looks like Revolution has closed down entirely which is a shame. I had some fun times there. The play-space during the LAM after parties in the old bank vaults was legendary.

First Impressions of the New Venue

Walking into the new space, I was immediately struck by how spacious and well-organized it was. The layout upstairs is very open. There are some stalls around one side of the room but most of the upstairs space is seating and the bar. This makes it much easier to get to the bar than the old venue and you can see everyone from anywhere in the room which makes it much easier to see any familiar faces in the crowd.

Downstairs is where most of the market stalls are.

I particularly appreciated the separate areas for socializing and shopping. In the old venue, these were often mixed together, which could make things feel a bit cramped. Here, there was a clear distinction, allowing for a more relaxed shopping experience and a more intimate social atmosphere.

Stalls That Caught My Eye

I love the designs by Freebound Studio. I saw a vegan leather and rose gold collar I liked and also a heavy rose gold choker chain. With my matching rose gold cuffs securing my wrists behind my back, my spreader bar on my ankles and that choker chain on a tightening leash, the breath play orgasms you could force out of me with my Doxy wand. mmm.

Final Thoughts

Overall, my visit to LAM at the new venue was an absolute delight. The space was more accommodating, the variety of stalls was impressive, and I left with so many new ideas for my sessions. If you haven’t visited LAM yet, I highly recommend it. It’s a great opportunity to explore new toys, meet like-minded individuals, and get inspired. I can’t wait to return next month and see what new delights await!

Elust 176

Welcome to Elust 176

Elust 176 Cover Image

The Cover image for this month’s Elust is of Eddy, a trans sex worker based in London. Photography by Maurice Farrell.

Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis – Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story

An eerie mix of supernatural elements and BDSM in a horror setting.

Ramone Quides – Queenie and Little Dick Part 1: Reticence

A married couple explore power exchange.

Kristina J. – Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.’s Seductive Revenge

A tale of seduction and revenge unfolds.

Jerusalem Mortimer – In the Realm of the Sensei: Prologue 1

The beginning of a journey into discipline and mastery.

Product Reviews

Liz X Likes – The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator

The cutting-edge of tech in male pleasure devices.

Morgan Destera – TOY TEST: Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist

A detailed review of this unique glass dildo.

Princess Previews – Njoy Disco

Insights on a premium stainless steel toy.

Oz Bigdownunder – Funzze Glass Toys

Another perspective on glass toys.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now – Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting

Like a duck bill.

Barefoot Sub – Ageing, By Barefoot

A personal reflection on aging and its impact on sexuality.

Buzzing Babe – Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way

Making wise choices when purchasing sex toys online.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search – Adult SEO: An Interview with Maverank

Gain insights into the world of adult SEO through this informative interview.

Lady Ava – Why Am I a Dominatrix?

Reflections on the journey into domination.

Hellga – Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E

A recount of a unique, intense experience.

Sandra – The Ouroboros: Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

My exploration of foot worship and cock and ball torture.

Erotic Non Fiction

Beyond Nonbinary – Baby Steps for a Baby Domme: Learning Her New Profession

Initial steps into domme life.

Lilly in Distress – Slave Spa

An immersive experience of submission and relaxation.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty’s Toy Box – Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps

A guide to perfecting nipple clamp use.

Hannah McKnight – Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness

Love the boots.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne – Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal

On pointe.

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The Ouroboros. Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

I had a fun session recently that I’m excited to share with you all. I met an antipodean gentleman on his way to Scotland for a film festival, who decided to make a pit stop in London for a little indulgence.

We met downstairs at a posh hotel in Knightsbridge, the kind of place where luxury and elegance greet you at every corner. The bar was dimly lit, with plush seating that made you feel like you could melt right into the ambiance. He was already waiting for me when I arrived, a big guy with a weightlifter’s body, towering over me even as he sat on one of those deep, leather chairs. His presence was very gentle and he had a quietness about him that made our conversation easy and unhurried.

After our drinks, we headed upstairs to his room, a grand suite that exuded sophistication. The room was spacious, with large windows that overlooked the city, but all of that faded into the background once the door closed and we were alone.

He had specific interests, and I was more than happy to explore them with him. We started with him on the floor and me on the bed, his lips eagerly finding my toes. He worshiped my feet with a fervour that was both intense and reverent. His large hands gripped my ankles as he sucked on each toe, his eyes half-closed, lost in the sensation.

It wasn’t long before I began to pull on his balls, my fingers finding their way to his ass as I teased him with a promise of what was to come. He was clearly enjoying every moment, though he remained quiet, only the occasional moan escaping his lips.

I brought out my strap-on, but quickly realized it might have been a bit ambitious. He wasn’t able to take it fully, but that didn’t stop the play. Instead, I pushed the boundaries in other ways, slipping my toes into his ass while he jerked off. The sight of him, this big, strong man, completely submitting to the pleasure, was exhilarating.

There was a lot of foot worship, more than I usually experience in a session. He was utterly devoted to my feet, even as I wrapped and tied his balls in a pair of my panties, squeezing them just enough to see him writhe in that perfect mix of pleasure and pain.

The highlight, for both of us, seemed to be when I found his prostate. The way he reacted, the sheer intensity of his arousal, told me I had hit the mark. He ejaculated with most of my foot in his mouth, two fingers deep inside him, while he stroked himself to completion. It felt almost like a game of naked Twister, or perhaps more like one of those snakes eating its own tail.

The ouroboros, a symbol of an everlasting cycle or a cycle of life, death, and rebirth. Or in this case a symbol of me half fisting a giant with one hand whilst crushing his nutsack with the other and my toes up his asshole.

Afterwards, he went to shower, and I followed after him. When we were both dressed again, we talked a bit about his upcoming trip and the festival. He didn’t say much, but the contentment in his eyes spoke volumes. I wished him an enjoyable journey and watched him leave with a sense of quiet fulfilment.

Next time, I’ll make sure to bring a smaller strap-on—I’m already looking forward to it. But for now, I’m left with the memory of a unique session with a man who knew exactly what he wanted, and left completely satisfied. Until our paths cross again, I’ll be holding onto the energy of that night, and the anticipation of what our next encounter might bring.

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Elust 175

This month’s cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of sensuous clairsentient seductress Nyala Mali. What a dazzling pic! Check out her site and follow her Onlyfans.

The Sex Shed – How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps: Practical steps to ensure toys are safe for use, focusing on materials, design, and user guidelines to avoid potential risks and enhance safety during anal play.

Ramone Quides – Destroyer of Good Erotica!: The importance of maintaining flexibility in the creative process and the value of taking breaks to gain fresh perspectives. It also shares insights on overcoming writer’s block and enhancing storytelling techniques.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J – The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent: The dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships. Kristina J explains how understanding and applying these principles can lead to more fulfilling and consensual interactions, enhancing mutual satisfaction and trust.

Beyond Non-Binary – What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?: The nature of power, control, and the archetype of the dominatrix. It highlights the author’s experiences and insights into the world of dominatrixes, offering a unique perspective on their roles and the energy they channel.

Morgan Destera – TOY TEST – Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise: Glow-in-the-dark!

Betty’s Toy Box – Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples: How the toy can enhance intimacy and shared pleasure, offering detailed insights into its features and user experience.

Sydney Screams – Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review: Love a good fantasy themed toy.

Witch of the Wands – Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go: Travel-friendly options like the Crave Vesper necklace, which combines functionality with style, allowing users to keep their toys handy and incognito. The post emphasizes the importance of discretion and convenience for travellers.

Unicorn Hunting Blog – Zara Du Rose interview: ZDR events and how to become a celebrity on the UK party scene: Event security, guest care, and the rules that ensure a safe and enjoyable environment for all attendees.

Buzzing Babe – Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure: Practical advice on how to start with light BDSM activities, focusing on communication, consent, and the different forms of play that can enhance intimacy.

Sex Toy DB – 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind Blowing Fucking Machine: Tips on setting it up in various positions and environments, such as on a dining chair or bondage bench, to maximize pleasure and functionality.

Sydney Screams, Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review

Princess Preview, Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Stan’s Swingers – Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play: The importance of communication, consent, and respect for privacy, offering guidelines for engaging in public play ethically and enjoyably.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM – The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon: Insights into the film’s narrative, characters, and its place within the broader context of BDSM representation in media.

Hannah McKnight – Behold, the Power of Forms: Practical tips on choosing and wearing shapewear, emphasizing the transformative power of these garments in creating a desired silhouette.

Sex Worker Search – Best Business Practices For Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA: Covers content moderation, age verification, and proactive policies to prevent exploitation, ensuring that sex work websites operate ethically and legally.

Oz Bigdownunder – Just a Cock in a Cage: Oz Bigdownunder shares a personal account of a BDSM session involving chastity play.  An intimate look at the power exchange and psychological aspects of chastity and control.

Sandra – Summertime Gangbang: My gangbang event.

Hellga – Malasana Pose Anal Action: Hellga details an encounter involving anal sex in the Malasana yoga pose.

The Siren Domme – Review: The Nest’ By Loonerfun: A multi room playspace in Cardiff.

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Summertime Gangbang

If you’ve been following my blog, you’ll know I love a good gangbang.

Master Oz and I have been hosting gangbangs and bukkake parties for many years now.

The first gangbang I mentioned on my blog was back in 2021.

Then we hosted this bukkake party in 2022.

Our most recent party was a  gangbang for my birthday in 2023.

Then last week we hosted a summertime gangbang. Our first event for 2024.

The tagline for the event was “Everyone fuck my pussy, ass and throat and cum on my face”. And they did!

A total of 8 people came to our gangbang. 6 regulars who’ve been to our events before and 2 new guys.

We got everyone to meet up at the pub down the road and met them there at the agreed time. My regulars all know me and the new guys had my description so as soon as I arrived in front of the pub, all my soon to be gangbangers were greeting me with hugs and kisses. All of them with growing semis in their pants, eager to get back to my flat, get me naked and fuck me hard left right and centre.

They didn’t have to wait long. I was as eager as they were.

Our little procession made it’s way a few hundred metres to my front door and from there, quickly and discreetly into my home sweet home soundproof basement fuck dungeon.

Everyone took turns to quickly freshen up in the bathroom and once we were all naked and ready to go, I got down on my knees and gave everyone a warm, wet, sloppy deepthroat welcome.

While we were gangbanging, England was playing Slovakia. I was more interested in my guests tackle and they were captivated by my ball handling skills.

I did notice some of the squad sneaking into the kitchen where they’d left their belongings to quickly check the score on their phones between rounds of action and they were talking football while pounding me.

That’s all fine.

They went in hard, got inside the box, no chance of a clean sheet, beautiful dribbling, the goal was wide open, he shoots, he scores!

Final score was 10 nil but I scored one of my own in extra time after my gangbangers had left me alone with my magic wand, still covered in their cum.

 

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Elust 174

Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina’s Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips.

Erotic Non Fiction

Voyageur Maggie and Paul

A short story exploring the complexities of a relationship marked by power dynamics and deep emotional bonds.

Kristina J Kink and Fetish

This post explores the variety and complexity of kinks and fetishes, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication in these practices.

Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery

reflecting on identity and transition

Erotic Fiction

barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences

chastity play

FYHO Her Boys

The dynamics of a polyamorous relationship

Jasmine Gold A Submissive’s First Threesome

Offline

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End

The final installment in the “Bedroom Eyes” series

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST – Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo

High performance and versatility

Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O

compact size and powerful vibrations

Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review

I’d like to take that for a ride

Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison

They’re too cute!

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine

creative suggestions for spicing up sexual routines, encouraging couples to explore new experiences together

Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare

Best practices for ensuring physical and emotional well-being post-scene

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships

Big nipples please

Betty’s Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms

Doggy for me usually but it depends on the shape and size of the cock or toy.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)

For your viewing pleasure

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune

Out of this world

Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?

Take a look under the hood

Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow

An MFF strap on threesome

Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

My post.

Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

I was in Hong Kong at the end of April and had a great time there with some regulars, some new clients and with my favourite duo partner Anita Swank.

This tour was planned and advertised in advance so I already had plenty of sessions booked before I arrived.

One new client I met there was extra nice. He emailed me to say he’d never had a threesome with two girls and it was his biggest fantasy to spank two sexy girls and then receive a sloppy blowjob with two of us taking turns to deepthroat him while the other sucked his balls.

I told him I know the perfect girl for the job.

Anita Swank is endlessly sexy and naturally submissive.

Anita Swank

Just look at that ass! When it came time for her spanking, I whispered to our new friend to aim each slap for the exact same spot on her right ass cheek and then do the same on her left ass cheek. I asked him to keep his palm slightly cupped to make the maximum loud slapping noise that gets me super wet and his fingers slightly spread so he’d leave perfect hand prints.

He was a natural. He placed every slap with perfect accuracy so that the handprints were beautifully defined and just got redder and redder with every slap.

Once he was done she had his hands imprinted there like a purple butterfly.

We rewarded him with the greatest blowjob in the history of blowjobs and between us we swallowed every drop.

 

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Elust 171

Dive into Elust 171. Tub loads of sexiness. Image courtesy of Sydney Screams.

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

Sandra Vitamin S

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What’s the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

FYHO The Polaroid

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

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Vitamin S. A Trio with Mistress Volga and TS Ama.

Mistress Volga extended a tempting offer, inviting me to join her and a client who had a penchant for silk-clad beauties.

TS Ama, adding her own allure, joined us for what promised to be an evening of sensual decadence.

Mistress Volga’s collection of silk was a sexy treasure trove which we eagerly explored. Donning silk panties, gowns, and stockings with suspenders, we indulged in the luxury of the fabric.

My favourite was a pale pink gown by Agent Provocateur.

Mistress Volga preferred her Honey Birdette suspenders and green silk gown.

Ama brought her own Bordello silk suspenders and baby doll silk dress.

Mr S, captivated by the sight of us in our silk finery, traced our curves with reverent hands, lost in the allure of feminine grace. Amidst whispers of champagne and plans for future photoshoots, Mistress Volga and I shared playful pleasures, while Ama and Mr S retreated for a more intimate rendezvous in the bedroom.

A game of blindfolded guess who (‘s giving you a blowjob) added an extra thrill to the night. Mr S guessed the source of his pleasure – Volga, Ama, or myself – with surprising accuracy.

It seemed like his wandering hands touching our outfits were a give away so we tried again naked. He guessed correctly again so by that time he must have already learned to discern our unique fellatio stylings.

Amidst laughter and whispered confessions, the night unfolded, a testament to the intoxicating allure of silk and the depths of desire it inspired.

I didn’t see what happened in the bedroom but Ama later told us it involved her fucking Mr S hard up the ass from behind while giving him a reach around.

A dream come true for Mr S and lots of fun for Volga, Ama and myself too.

Elust 170 Jo Koss

Elust 170 is Sexier Than a Black Tie Gangbang.

Elust 170 is now live with my Duo with TS Ama post included. Brilliant collection of sexy writing as always and I love the cover Image by Jo Koss! Gives me an idea for my next Gangbang or Bukkake party. I’ll make it a black tie event and ask all the gents to wear suits 🙂

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

Movie trivia = one of the naked slave girls chained to the wall is Lucille Ball.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

Watching out for the sequel. My money says Camilla is going to end up having a threesome with them.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

There should be more mollusc themed pet names if you ask me. Scallop.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Ever got turned on reading about bankers and lawyers networking after a corporate meeting? Trust me, you will.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

This almost makes me want to go running. Almost.

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Dylan Thomas’s excellent advice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

Huddersfield Escort extraordinaire with all you need to know about GFE.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

If everyone read this. I’d be out of a job..

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

Looks awesome. Maybe don’t take it in your hand luggage.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

I take back what I said about the buzz vibes post, I love sexy couples with great communication. If you’re a couple, read that and this , then come and see me!

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Terrifying.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Love a good sissy session.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

Likewise, I’ve figured out almost everything I know about being submissive as a sex worker via trial and error. The pro sub world needs this resource.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

My duo with Ama.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

Tis the season to wear latex and gas masks. While it’s not too hot and sweaty.

Oz Valentine’s Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Romantic 🙂

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

The A to Z of safely booking a session with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Brb, off to watch some hentai.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone’s a great sex blogger. I’m sure inspiration will return.

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Duo with TS Ama

My regular client who always meets me when he’s in London contacted me recently and asked if I know any sexy TS escorts.

I do!

I sent him a link to my friend Ama’s twitter.

Lust at first sight!

So we arranged a day and time for the duo (trio) here at my flat in Marylebone.

The first hour was 1-1 my gentleman friend and I and then Ama joined us for 2 hours.

For the first hour I dressed my man as a sissy in a slutty latex outfit with high heels.

I named my new sissy slut Chrissy.

Chrissy helped me into my latex and we both needed plenty of silicone spray to get our latex nice and glistening.

Four hands are better than two for polishing latex. Chrissy and I both lent a hand or two for polishing. Plenty of ass polishing. Got to get the ass nice and shiny.

On my command, Chrissy practiced her strut and butt wiggle parading her shiny ass up and down my living room.

She was a bit wobbly at first but with the right encouragement, Chrissy got the hang of her catwalk. The little half turn and pose move I got her to do was especially seductive.

Chrissy and I both enjoyed some anal play together to get our asses ready for Ama who was eager to join in and fuck both of us.

When Ama arrived she ws wearing Bordelle lingerie which was gorgeous but soon came off so she could change into her own sexy latex outfit from Lady Lucie Latex. Ama looked spectacular in her latex and Louboutins. Perfect match with me in my own latex outfit from Honour with my Pleaser boots.

Chrissy showed Ama the strut she’d been practicing. Shook her little tush on the catwalk.

I fucked Chrissy with a strap on while Ama throat fucked her. High five, of course. The Eiffel tower.

My weapon of choice was the Fun Factory Boss pink silicone dildo on my favourite strap on harness.

Ama fucked me in the ass. And a damn fine ass fucking it was too.

Champagne for everyone.

After our bubbles break, Ama fucked Chrissy from behind with me lying underneath in 69.

I could tell from Chrissy’s rock hard, throbbing sissy clit and the noises she was making that she was almost immediately very close to cumming but Ama was able to set the pace and slow things down and I was careful to edge Chrissy to prolong our pleasure.

The three of us were in perfectly synchronised throes of passion as if we were a lifelong throuple.

Chrissy came first and Ama pulled out and came all over me while I was having my own earth shaking orgasm, thrashing and splashing around in the giant puddle of cum my two latex fuck buddies had almost drowned me in.

My happy place. Post orgasmic and wallowing in sperm.

We all got in the shower and took our time getting cleaned up, said goodnight and after they’d left I activated my new vacuum cleaner robot, Owen, with his mop attachment to clean up all the latex polish and spunk off my tiles. If Owen gets pregnant, he’s going to make beautiful cyborg babies.

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Elust 168

Image courtesy of Adrianna Assante.

“Principle Decisions” by Thea Belmont is praised for its deep character exploration and BDSM themes.

“I Love a Man in Uniform (1993): The Celluloid Dungeon” explores the descent of a bank clerk turned actor into obsession with a police officer role.

“Exit To Eden” by Anne Rice is criticized for its handling of BDSM themes.

“What’s Wrong With Forced Feminization?” reflects on the cultural and psychological aspects of this kink.

“A little pick me up” discusses the therapeutic effects of rope suspension for emotional relief.

“BDSM Aftercare” emphasizes the importance of aftercare in BDSM activities.

“Unlocking Pleasure: 14 Essential Prodomme Tips for Baby Subs” offers guidance for new individuals in BDSM.

“Tender Domination” narrates a couple’s exploration of dominance and submission.

“The Ghost of Timor – Ch.21 – End” concludes an erotic fiction story.

“Sexy Ghost Story – Mia’s Books” introduces an erotic tale involving a ghostly seduction.

“Squeeze me Please Me” provides an informative guide to cock rings.

“Double Deflowering” describes a BDSM session focusing on anal deflowering.

“Happy Poo Emoji” my post about a scat fetish session.

“What to Do When Your Sexual Expectations Fail You?” addresses sexual performance anxiety and expectations.

“Revolting Prostitutes Book Review” reviews a book advocating for sex workers’ rights.

“Tracy’s Dog Flowliper Vibrator” review highlights its features and drawbacks.

“Review: Velvet Thruster Prime” evaluates a modular thruster with mixed feedback.

“RawLoveStudio Moonbean Unicorn Dildo” praises a fantasy unicorn horn dildo.

“Uncle Bob Silicone Dildo From John Thomas Toys” Bob is a big boy.

“Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker Review” provides a negative review of an electro-spanker.

“Keeping Your Toys Clean: A Guide to Protecting Your Health and Pleasure” emphasizes the importance of cleaning sex toys for hygiene and safety.

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Happy Poo Emoji. A Scat Fetish Session.

Last week a new client contacted me by email and asked to book a scat fetish session.

He seemed polite, genuine and respectful and got straight to the point about where and when he’d like to meet without trying to engage in a lot of unnecessary chat.

Like all experienced sex workers, I’m all too familiar with timewasters who like to propose sessions that they think are extreme or shocking in the hope that they  can get free entertainment chatting about the details of an encounter they have zero intention of ever going through with in reality.

The more unusual the request, in my experience, the less likely they are to actually show up to an appointment.

But sometimes these kinds of requests are genuine and in this case my new gentleman friend did everything exactly right to assure me that he wasn’t just messing around.

The scene he had in mind was a kinky GFE (girlfriend experience) where we would start out with a romantic, fairly vanilla date and then at some point I would adjourn to the ladies room to powder my nose and my dashing suitor would chaperone me there and on bended knee, watch me take a big steaming dump.

It’s like Cinderella or something, innit?

I enjoyed Price Charming’s company. He’s really sweet and knows exactly what he likes and why he likes it.

His ex was very private about her ablutions and the more she tried to be discreet about her movements, the more fascinated he became and the desire to know exactly what was going on behind the closed toilet door grew and grew.

He never told her his hearts true desire out of concern that she’d be horrified, instead satisfying his curiosity as best he could by furtively wanking himself off whilst listening to her farting and plopping noises from afar.

Apparently they broke up for reasons unrelated to his unrequited lust for hard sports.

Anyway, I’m no prude and not squeamish at all about my asshole, which is a thing of beauty I normally like to keep clean as a whistle. Especially when anal action is on the menu. But when it’s appropriate to get dirty, I’m down with some dirtiness.

And so it was that after kisses and cuddles and some sensible grown up snuggles, I sat astride my porcelain throne, legs akimbo, with a handsome man crouched before me, gazing in wonderment at the magnificent turd I dropped for his viewing pleasure.

He came. I wiped and flushed. We both washed our hands. And we all lived happily ever after.

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Elust 167

Elust 167 is here and what an awesome cover Image courtesy of Pod1213. Sit back, relax and enjoy all the best sex blog posts from the past month.

Product Reviews

Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator

Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox

The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action

Review: Magic Wand Micro

Midnight Menagerie Teufl

The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023

Gosh, you really got some nice toys here barefoot sub, Liz X, Betty, Girlyjuice, Princess and Sex Toy DB.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame

Quality post from Buzzvibes. Check out their products too.

Home for the Polydays

And a happy Polyday season to you too, Ready for Polyamory.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship

Silken Claws with much more than a handful of spanking advice.

Erotic Fiction

Red Panties and Purple Passions

Ramone finds a blackout mask draped over the spare room doorknob and the sounds of his wife in the throes of passion with another man. Every cuckolds wildest fantasy.

Bedroom Eyes 30

Jerusalem Mortimer with the latest adventures of Stephanie, Maires and their Master.

Books and Movies

Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings

Dracula! I love vampires. Never really thought about them as metaphors for forbidden sex, but it does make sense.

Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon

History of BDSM goes to the movies.

Sex Work

Come to Dubai Habibi

Oz enjoying sun, sand and forced bi duos in Dubai.

Locktober Special

Lady Phoenix holds the keys (to her slaves’ chastity cages).

Kink: Prostate massage

Mina Fontana gives a thumbs up to Prostate massage.

On Promises

Keep your promises to Louisa Knight.

Facility X Dungeon

My blog post.

Censorship

This is really bad news from Sex Worker Search. It seems google’s latest bright idea is to expunge sex workers sites from their search results.

The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine

Hellga puts the R in Male, Female, Robot double penetration threesomes.

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Facility X Dungeon

One of my favourite regulars took me to Facility X Dungeon the other day.

He’s a kinky, dominant, dirty minded perv into anal action, big toys and fisting.

Facility X is the perfect setting for our fun and games.

It’s minimalist in decor. Kind of industrial and serious looking for the no nonsense kinkster who likes all their toys clearly arranged, everything neat and clinical and in it’s place, all their furniture built to specifications that could withstand a kaiju attack.

There’s a rather ominous looking sheet metal floor and plastic strip curtains. Butcher shop chic.

Even the four poster bed is made from solid steel and looks like you could hang a tractor off it.

My ass took a prolonged and relentless pounding whilst bent over their beautiful fetters spanking bench. Loved it. I could barely walk afterwards and am still recovering two days later.

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Elust 166

A beautiful cover image thanks to Heather Strong and so many incredible sex blog posts in this month’s Elust 166! Happy reading. Hope you enjoy these as much as I did.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles

Super Smash Cache on how to rule over your male submissive and have him eating out of your hand.

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Silken claws on why chastity is not everyone’s cup of tea.

Erotic Non Fiction

Take A Look At Yourself

The barefoot sub in front of the full length mirror.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man

GirlyBoy has switched endocrinologists and changed their hormone replacement therapy with a pronounced effect on their sensitivity and libido.

Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend

Betty’s Toy Box with a new technique and the toys best suited for this pleasurable way to play.

Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple

Joan Price interviews one of the co-authors of a book on how partners can support one another in overcoming insecurities, inhibitions, shame, and self-consciousness that often accompany aging.

Product Reviews

The Basilisk

William from Musings of a switch reviews a monster dildo from Laphwing.

Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer

Liz Black road tests an erotic audio app with AI.

Erotic Fiction

The Gym

You meet a sexy stranger at the gym. Erotica written in second-person point of view by For Your Heart Only.

Steph’s Surprise

Gander in London presents a very sexy cuckolding scene.

Dare

Will the dare result in a reward or a penalty? By Dr Girlfriend for When Jerry Met Ali.

The Bradley Shower Pole

Gloryhole action in the bathhouse by Sinclair Sexsmith.

Writing about writing

Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit

Ramone Quides gives thanks to those who have inspired his writing this month. Including Elust 🙂

Sex Work

Bring Your Fantasies to Life

Charlie Rose on different types of fantasies.

The Perfect Enquiry

Madeleine Rose on how to contact a sex worker.

Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie

A red hot duo with Oz Bigdownunder.

Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition

Sex Worker Search interviews Mike Stabile, representing FSC,  the trade association of the adult entertainment industry.

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder

My duo with Oz.

Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin

Hellga takes no prisoners. Well. At least one prisoner is going to get taken. Up the butt.