Tag Archives: Musings of a Switch

Elust 178 cover Anais Leigh

Elust 178

Welcome to Elust 178

Cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

Adult flicks.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Getting zen.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Solo time.

Betty’s Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Types of orgasms you might not have had… yet.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Bringing old-fashioned manners into the bedroom.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Zen again.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

Robogasmic.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

He’s going to spank someone soon.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

Or do.

Jasmine Gold, A Nun’s Humiliation

Diabolical.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn’t Know Existed (2024)

High tech wank.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo’s Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker


More tech wank.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Bonsoir sexy.

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

This is cool. Mistress Kim Rub is a legend.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

Good to know.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker


I remember when I was this new and having the same thoughts.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Oz and I.

Nuit d’Or, Self-care For Dominants

Interesting. I’m a fan of this blog and of Nuit.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Lucky sissy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Horrifying.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Loved the poem and the visuals.

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Elust 174

Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina’s Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips.

Erotic Non Fiction

Voyageur Maggie and Paul

A short story exploring the complexities of a relationship marked by power dynamics and deep emotional bonds.

Kristina J Kink and Fetish

This post explores the variety and complexity of kinks and fetishes, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication in these practices.

Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery

reflecting on identity and transition

Erotic Fiction

barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences

chastity play

FYHO Her Boys

The dynamics of a polyamorous relationship

Jasmine Gold A Submissive’s First Threesome

Offline

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End

The final installment in the “Bedroom Eyes” series

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST – Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo

High performance and versatility

Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O

compact size and powerful vibrations

Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review

I’d like to take that for a ride

Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison

They’re too cute!

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine

creative suggestions for spicing up sexual routines, encouraging couples to explore new experiences together

Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare

Best practices for ensuring physical and emotional well-being post-scene

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships

Big nipples please

Betty’s Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms

Doggy for me usually but it depends on the shape and size of the cock or toy.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)

For your viewing pleasure

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune

Out of this world

Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?

Take a look under the hood

Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow

An MFF strap on threesome

Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

My post.

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Elust 171

Dive into Elust 171. Tub loads of sexiness. Image courtesy of Sydney Screams.

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

Sandra Vitamin S

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What’s the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

FYHO The Polaroid

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

Elust 170 Jo Koss

Elust 170 is Sexier Than a Black Tie Gangbang.

Elust 170 is now live with my Duo with TS Ama post included. Brilliant collection of sexy writing as always and I love the cover Image by Jo Koss! Gives me an idea for my next Gangbang or Bukkake party. I’ll make it a black tie event and ask all the gents to wear suits 🙂

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

Movie trivia = one of the naked slave girls chained to the wall is Lucille Ball.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

Watching out for the sequel. My money says Camilla is going to end up having a threesome with them.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

There should be more mollusc themed pet names if you ask me. Scallop.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Ever got turned on reading about bankers and lawyers networking after a corporate meeting? Trust me, you will.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

This almost makes me want to go running. Almost.

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Dylan Thomas’s excellent advice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

Huddersfield Escort extraordinaire with all you need to know about GFE.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

If everyone read this. I’d be out of a job..

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

Looks awesome. Maybe don’t take it in your hand luggage.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

I take back what I said about the buzz vibes post, I love sexy couples with great communication. If you’re a couple, read that and this , then come and see me!

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Terrifying.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Love a good sissy session.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

Likewise, I’ve figured out almost everything I know about being submissive as a sex worker via trial and error. The pro sub world needs this resource.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

My duo with Ama.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

Tis the season to wear latex and gas masks. While it’s not too hot and sweaty.

Oz Valentine’s Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Romantic 🙂

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

The A to Z of safely booking a session with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Brb, off to watch some hentai.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone’s a great sex blogger. I’m sure inspiration will return.

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Elust 166

A beautiful cover image thanks to Heather Strong and so many incredible sex blog posts in this month’s Elust 166! Happy reading. Hope you enjoy these as much as I did.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles

Super Smash Cache on how to rule over your male submissive and have him eating out of your hand.

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Silken claws on why chastity is not everyone’s cup of tea.

Erotic Non Fiction

Take A Look At Yourself

The barefoot sub in front of the full length mirror.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man

GirlyBoy has switched endocrinologists and changed their hormone replacement therapy with a pronounced effect on their sensitivity and libido.

Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend

Betty’s Toy Box with a new technique and the toys best suited for this pleasurable way to play.

Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple

Joan Price interviews one of the co-authors of a book on how partners can support one another in overcoming insecurities, inhibitions, shame, and self-consciousness that often accompany aging.

Product Reviews

The Basilisk

William from Musings of a switch reviews a monster dildo from Laphwing.

Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer

Liz Black road tests an erotic audio app with AI.

Erotic Fiction

The Gym

You meet a sexy stranger at the gym. Erotica written in second-person point of view by For Your Heart Only.

Steph’s Surprise

Gander in London presents a very sexy cuckolding scene.

Dare

Will the dare result in a reward or a penalty? By Dr Girlfriend for When Jerry Met Ali.

The Bradley Shower Pole

Gloryhole action in the bathhouse by Sinclair Sexsmith.

Writing about writing

Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit

Ramone Quides gives thanks to those who have inspired his writing this month. Including Elust 🙂

Sex Work

Bring Your Fantasies to Life

Charlie Rose on different types of fantasies.

The Perfect Enquiry

Madeleine Rose on how to contact a sex worker.

Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie

A red hot duo with Oz Bigdownunder.

Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition

Sex Worker Search interviews Mike Stabile, representing FSC,  the trade association of the adult entertainment industry.

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder

My duo with Oz.

Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin

Hellga takes no prisoners. Well. At least one prisoner is going to get taken. Up the butt.

Elust 163 cover Jordan Maxx

Elust 163

The Elust 163 Cover Image is courtesy of  Jordan Maxx. What a hotty!

Read on for the best new sex blog posts on kink, fetish, sex and relationships, sex toys, spanking, sex work and erotica.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Accepting Sadism: Separating Hurt and Harm

15 Sex Room Decor Themes To Consider

7 Steamy Skills For Soft Dom Dirty Talk

Kylie Cockwhore’s Kinky Commentary Part Two

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Embrace Your Inner Wildness and Take a Leap of Faith

Public Sex

Product Reviews

Tenga Geo Coral Masturbator Review

Review of the Wave Shower Head Stimulator by Womanizer and Hans Grohe

Sucky Ducky. Funzze Clit Sucking Toy Review

Viben Fierce Wand

Erotic Fiction

Blowing Off Steam

Stay

Hot Spanking Scene

Erotic Non Fiction

Red-Bottom Blues

Sex Work

Stepping Into a World of Feet

Blue Door Dungeon

How to be an Ideal Client

The ‘Mommy Goddess’ and the Mass Reporting of Sex Workers on Instagram

Double Penetration with Big Dildos

Chat GPT, Bing AI and Google Bard’s Opinions on Sex Work

Elust 161

Welcome to Elust 161.

Image courtesy of Vicky Vette.
So much quality content in the latest edition of Elust and the cover image of Vicky Vette
is making me wetter than that orange bikini.

Product Reviews

Funzze Remote Control Dual Stim Vibe

TOY TEST – PinkPunch PEACHU Clit Sucker

B-Vibe Trio Rechargeable Butt Plug Review

Harrow Bulb Depth Trainer From John Thomas Toys Review

I’ve heard good things about clit suckers. Shame that one didn’t live up to the hype.

Erotic Fiction

Red Rose – first chapter of MIRROR SECRET MIRROR

Bound

Matthew meets Jamie

Behind the Lens: A Tale of Intimacy and Artistry

I especially liked Liz X’s bossy photographer.

Erotic Non Fiction

Cock Sucking – An Oral Fixation

“block my nostrils with your weighty sac.” Yes, please!

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Why Lifestyle D/s?

In a Pinch

Male Chastity: Everything You Need to Know

Do you know where I like getting pinched?

Sex Work

Gangbang Fantasy

A Duo with Ruth and Her Habibi

Why do we Need a Search Engine for Independent Sex Worker Websites?

I’d love to see more sex workers getting enough clients directly from our websites so we don’t rely on escort directories. The top directories in USA, Eros and tryst are best known for handing sex workers real identities over to the feds and taking months to verify new accounts respectively. Here in UK the top directory, adultwork, looks like a website from the 90s and has the worst customer service of any business on the planet. Personal websites are the future. Make sure yours is indexed on sex worker search.

State of the World

Is It Time to Reevaluate Our Spending on Pleasure and Entertainment?

You can never have too many sex toys.

Books and Movies

Recent Reading

Books on polyamory.

Writing about Writing

Adventures in Writing: Learning Lessons from Three Regrets of my Writing Life

Lessons from Mischa Eliot. She has a lot to teach us.

Poetry

Miami Girl

I pictured the girl in my imagination as Salma Hayek doing her snake dance in From Dusk til Dawn but in the shower and without the snake.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sexy things that are really NOT that sexy!

Whipped cream maybe. Anything sticky, no thank you.

Elust 159

Image courtesy of Ivy Maddox.

Welcome to Elust 159.

Every month, Elust brings together the best of the best sex bloggers in one place. You’ll find a variety of content including sex journalism, erotic literature, relationship guidance, and discussions about kink in the links to follow.

 

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, Bedroom Eyes 20

Asrai Devin, Mr. Welsh and the Bathtub

Mirror Secret Mirror, The Master Plan – Part 11

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Foreplay

A Leap of Faith, Never bored with a board game

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Liz X, Collars And Cuffs: Japanese Vs American Bondage Equipment

Sextoydb, The Ultimate Guide to Diaper Kinks, ABDL, and Infantilism

LockedupL, Pegging

Evolving Your Man, Ask Emma: Can Cuckolding Cause Erectile Dysfunction?

On Her Back, How to Get the Most Out Strap-On Sex: 7 Tips

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder, Podopheleus Triple-Formed Review

Lady in Latex, Secretary Role-Play

Lady Phoenix, My Dungeon Valentine

Me, Erotic Body Slide Massage

Tulsi Tamora, Can an Escort Really Be Authentic?

Writing about writing

Mischa Elliot, Adventures in Writing: Dear Teenage Me…

Erotic Non Fiction

Pieces of Jade, My Girlie Bits

Denying Thumper, Orgasmic party tricks

Books and Movies

Sapora Knight, You Get to Define Your Sexuality on Your Terms

Product Reviews

Miss Ruby Reviews, Liberator Esse Luxury Sex Lounger

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Elust 158

Image courtesy of Pilen.

Elust features an incredible selection of quality sex blog posts in Elust 158.

It was a pleasure reading all the sexy blog posts included this month.

Whenever I look at my analytics, I see a lot of new views coming from Elust re-posts.

Participating regularly in Elust is a brilliant way to reach a wider audience and to help promote talented bloggers.

Thank you to Oz for including my post and for everything he does for the sex blogging community. I know he dedicates a lot of time and effort to curating and publishing Elust and even donates a generous prize every month to encourage collaboration and co-promotion.

Erotic Non Fiction

Why on earth wouldn’t I want to live the rest of my life as a woman?

Thoughts on gender and sexuality from Girlieboy.

Friday, I’m in Love

Mr Friday sounds like a perfect masochistic sub for Mistress Victory.

His Fingers

Got to love a handy man with sexy hands.

Erotic Fiction

Working From Home Nightmare

A video conference meeting gets an eyeful of Alissa Thorne.

Dating Isn’t So Bad After All

A promising date for Barefoot Sub.

Baby Girl Tease

Asrai Devin presents an obedient sub and her strict Dom.

Sex Work

Theatre and a Threesome. A Duo Date with Mackenzie Beckles

Hellga has the perfect end to the perfect night out. A bisexual threesome!

Eiffel Towers and Assgasms. Duo with Goddess Cleo and FoXtress

Oz’s adventures with two strapped colleagues and a very accommodating bottom.

Playing with Myself with my New Thrusting Dildo

My new best friend!

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Propinkup Bunny Elf Clitoral Sucker

A toy that proves to be better than expected reviewed by Morgan Destera.

John Thomas Toys POD Platinum Silicone Stretcher Review

What a monster! Joanne reviews.

Cosmo Flogger

A shame this flogger is so flimsy. It looks beautiful.

New Fleshlight Boost Line-Up

The latest male masturbators presented by Safelust.

Books and Movies

Thoughts on Anne Rice’s ‘The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty’

A book review thanks to Mirror Secret Mirror.

O Fantasma (2000): The Celluloid Dungeon

History of BDSM with a movie review.

Blogging

Sayonara 2022, I’m so thrilled to see you go

A 2023 much better than 2022 is on the cards for Mischa Eliot

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

EVEN MORE Truths about Dating as a Sex Industry Professional

Super Smash Cache blogs about dating.

Quality is the key

Master’s Pleasing Bitch shares her thoughts on Body Count, the total number of sexual partners.

Awesome Sex

The key to great sex according to Musings of a Switch.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Shiny Things

Hannah McKnight looks gorgeous in an outfit from En Femme.

Chastity and FemDom Tasks List Story – Part 5

Two Mistresses dominate a pair of slaves.

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Elust 152

Image courtesy of Margot Alderton.

Welcome to Elust 152.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.
Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #153? Send in a post anytime and Oz will add it to the next edition.

Please subscribe to email updates to receive two emails per month from Elust. A reminder once a month on the 1st send in submissions and a copy of the latest edition of Elust on the 15th of every month.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Hard To Come By- Barefoot’s Orgasm Journey

Lots of orgasms! Wishing many more Os for Barefoot Sub.

Gauging up

Stay tuned for bigger and bigger genital jewellery.

Sex Work

La Belle Horizontale

One night in Paris with Lilly.

Foxy Couple

Oz is the man for MMF.

Birthday Gangbang

Another year, another 12 loads of cum on my face.

I love Roleplay

Me too.

Erotic Fiction

Stolen Love from Russia

I think she understands more than she’s letting on. My prediction = These boys are getting played.

Moon Feather: Part 48: Terms and Conditions

That Joey is a naughty girl. My kind of girl.

Strangers in a Bar

A quicky with Ambyr.

Bedroom Eyes 7

Jerusalem Mortimer really knows how to erotica.

Tossing His Caber – Highland Spanking Romance

Thanks Tabitha for expanding my kink horizons. Always loved Vikings. Now I have a thing for highlanders too.

Erotic Non Fiction

Teaching Tommy

Mistress Victory teaches Tommy a lesson.

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Nosakki Clitoral Stimulator with Thrusting Bullet Vibrator

Morgan Destera with some enticing new toys.

13 Best Fun Factory Sex Toys (& 5 I dislike)

Super Smash Cache with even more fun toys.

Books, TV and Movies

Review of Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room

I have no room for a sex room. Maybe a sex swing.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty’s Guide to Building Your Own Sex Room

More sex room.

All in the contract

Julie takes us through the fine print.

Living Rent Free in my Head

Lillith talks past traumas and recent bruises. The bruises look great. Wishing for her healing from the older wounds.

BDSM Collars: Symbolism & Collaring Ceremonies

Cara Sutra talks collars.

Writing about writing

Sex, Strawberries and Cream

Simone Francis for dessert