Tag Archives: The History of BDSM

Vivienne Black Elust 177

Elust 177 Glass Dildos, Body Paint, Sex and Zen

Cover image courtesy of Vivienne Black. Awesome pic. The rest of the photos from the same shoot are great too. Click the link to her twitter to see the photo set.

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

A playful look at threesomes and how to make it work for everyone involved.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Mixing pop music and a cheeky drink with a bit of seduction.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Stay off the asparagus.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Beautifully written and fascinating subject.

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Shopaholic.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

The hidden struggles.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Purest gold.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Calling out dodgy practices we all know escort directories engage in. Selling our personal details to advertisers and handing our identities to the authorities without requiring a subpoena.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Kinky play spaces.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

How many chapters do you think Sensei’s chastity and virtue are going to remain intact for? My money is on one. By chapter 4 he’s going to be balls deep in consenting adult Japanese women. I hope.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Get the buzz.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Glass dildos with a twist.

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

My Queendom for an indestructible vibrator. Although it is waterproof, quiet, cordless and powerful.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Boundaries are sexy and essential for better connections.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

That body paint looks amazing!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

Sex and Zen.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Sneak peek into long-term power exchange.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

The last one sounds good. Surprise picnic. Preferably including a powerful, rumbly, wand vibrator somewhere in the picnic basket.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Shout-out to the year’s best steamy romance novel.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Exploring Cronenberg’s freaky vision of future sexuality.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Looks like my kind of movie. Just found it on Prime. Ok, I know what I’m watching later.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

I, for one, welcome our new language model overlords.

Elust 175 Nyala Mali

Elust 175

This month’s cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of sensuous clairsentient seductress Nyala Mali. What a dazzling pic! Check out her site and follow her Onlyfans.

The Sex Shed – How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps: Practical steps to ensure toys are safe for use, focusing on materials, design, and user guidelines to avoid potential risks and enhance safety during anal play.

Ramone Quides – Destroyer of Good Erotica!: The importance of maintaining flexibility in the creative process and the value of taking breaks to gain fresh perspectives. It also shares insights on overcoming writer’s block and enhancing storytelling techniques.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J – The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent: The dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships. Kristina J explains how understanding and applying these principles can lead to more fulfilling and consensual interactions, enhancing mutual satisfaction and trust.

Beyond Non-Binary – What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?: The nature of power, control, and the archetype of the dominatrix. It highlights the author’s experiences and insights into the world of dominatrixes, offering a unique perspective on their roles and the energy they channel.

Morgan Destera – TOY TEST – Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise: Glow-in-the-dark!

Betty’s Toy Box – Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples: How the toy can enhance intimacy and shared pleasure, offering detailed insights into its features and user experience.

Sydney Screams – Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review: Love a good fantasy themed toy.

Witch of the Wands – Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go: Travel-friendly options like the Crave Vesper necklace, which combines functionality with style, allowing users to keep their toys handy and incognito. The post emphasizes the importance of discretion and convenience for travellers.

Unicorn Hunting Blog – Zara Du Rose interview: ZDR events and how to become a celebrity on the UK party scene: Event security, guest care, and the rules that ensure a safe and enjoyable environment for all attendees.

Buzzing Babe – Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure: Practical advice on how to start with light BDSM activities, focusing on communication, consent, and the different forms of play that can enhance intimacy.

Sex Toy DB – 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind Blowing Fucking Machine: Tips on setting it up in various positions and environments, such as on a dining chair or bondage bench, to maximize pleasure and functionality.

Sydney Screams, Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review

Princess Preview, Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Stan’s Swingers – Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play: The importance of communication, consent, and respect for privacy, offering guidelines for engaging in public play ethically and enjoyably.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM – The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon: Insights into the film’s narrative, characters, and its place within the broader context of BDSM representation in media.

Hannah McKnight – Behold, the Power of Forms: Practical tips on choosing and wearing shapewear, emphasizing the transformative power of these garments in creating a desired silhouette.

Sex Worker Search – Best Business Practices For Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA: Covers content moderation, age verification, and proactive policies to prevent exploitation, ensuring that sex work websites operate ethically and legally.

Oz Bigdownunder – Just a Cock in a Cage: Oz Bigdownunder shares a personal account of a BDSM session involving chastity play.  An intimate look at the power exchange and psychological aspects of chastity and control.

Sandra – Summertime Gangbang: My gangbang event.

Hellga – Malasana Pose Anal Action: Hellga details an encounter involving anal sex in the Malasana yoga pose.

The Siren Domme – Review: The Nest’ By Loonerfun: A multi room playspace in Cardiff.