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Elust 178

Welcome to Elust 178

Cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

Adult flicks.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Getting zen.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Solo time.

Betty’s Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Types of orgasms you might not have had… yet.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Bringing old-fashioned manners into the bedroom.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Zen again.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

Robogasmic.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

He’s going to spank someone soon.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

Or do.

Jasmine Gold, A Nun’s Humiliation

Diabolical.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn’t Know Existed (2024)

High tech wank.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo’s Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker


More tech wank.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Bonsoir sexy.

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

This is cool. Mistress Kim Rub is a legend.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

Good to know.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker


I remember when I was this new and having the same thoughts.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Oz and I.

Nuit d’Or, Self-care For Dominants

Interesting. I’m a fan of this blog and of Nuit.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Lucky sissy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Horrifying.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Loved the poem and the visuals.

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Elust 177 Glass Dildos, Body Paint, Sex and Zen

Cover image courtesy of Vivienne Black. Awesome pic. The rest of the photos from the same shoot are great too. Click the link to her twitter to see the photo set.

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

A playful look at threesomes and how to make it work for everyone involved.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Mixing pop music and a cheeky drink with a bit of seduction.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Stay off the asparagus.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Beautifully written and fascinating subject.

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Shopaholic.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

The hidden struggles.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Purest gold.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Calling out dodgy practices we all know escort directories engage in. Selling our personal details to advertisers and handing our identities to the authorities without requiring a subpoena.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Kinky play spaces.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

How many chapters do you think Sensei’s chastity and virtue are going to remain intact for? My money is on one. By chapter 4 he’s going to be balls deep in consenting adult Japanese women. I hope.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Get the buzz.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Glass dildos with a twist.

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

My Queendom for an indestructible vibrator. Although it is waterproof, quiet, cordless and powerful.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Boundaries are sexy and essential for better connections.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

That body paint looks amazing!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

Sex and Zen.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Sneak peek into long-term power exchange.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

The last one sounds good. Surprise picnic. Preferably including a powerful, rumbly, wand vibrator somewhere in the picnic basket.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Shout-out to the year’s best steamy romance novel.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Exploring Cronenberg’s freaky vision of future sexuality.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Looks like my kind of movie. Just found it on Prime. Ok, I know what I’m watching later.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

I, for one, welcome our new language model overlords.

Elust 176

Welcome to Elust 176

Elust 176 Cover Image

The Cover image for this month’s Elust is of Eddy, a trans sex worker based in London. Photography by Maurice Farrell.

Erotic Fiction

Simone Francis – Goldilocks – A Supernatural BDSM Horror Story

An eerie mix of supernatural elements and BDSM in a horror setting.

Ramone Quides – Queenie and Little Dick Part 1: Reticence

A married couple explore power exchange.

Kristina J. – Captivated and Caught: Kristina J.’s Seductive Revenge

A tale of seduction and revenge unfolds.

Jerusalem Mortimer – In the Realm of the Sensei: Prologue 1

The beginning of a journey into discipline and mastery.

Product Reviews

Liz X Likes – The Future of Pleasure is Here: A Comprehensive Review of the Keon Automatic Masturbator

The cutting-edge of tech in male pleasure devices.

Morgan Destera – TOY TEST: Funzze Glass Dildo with a Twist

A detailed review of this unique glass dildo.

Princess Previews – Njoy Disco

Insights on a premium stainless steel toy.

Oz Bigdownunder – Funzze Glass Toys

Another perspective on glass toys.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Pleasure Me Now – Fist and Furious: The Ins and Outs of Anal Fisting

Like a duck bill.

Barefoot Sub – Ageing, By Barefoot

A personal reflection on aging and its impact on sexuality.

Buzzing Babe – Buying Amazon Sex Toys the Smart Way

Making wise choices when purchasing sex toys online.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search – Adult SEO: An Interview with Maverank

Gain insights into the world of adult SEO through this informative interview.

Lady Ava – Why Am I a Dominatrix?

Reflections on the journey into domination.

Hellga – Showers of Gold: A Duo with Christine Love and Mr. E

A recount of a unique, intense experience.

Sandra – The Ouroboros: Foot Worship and Cock and Ball Torture Session

My exploration of foot worship and cock and ball torture.

Erotic Non Fiction

Beyond Nonbinary – Baby Steps for a Baby Domme: Learning Her New Profession

Initial steps into domme life.

Lilly in Distress – Slave Spa

An immersive experience of submission and relaxation.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Betty’s Toy Box – Mastering the Art of Nipple Clamps

A guide to perfecting nipple clamp use.

Hannah McKnight – Saturday Night’s Alright for Kinkiness

Love the boots.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne – Book Review: Pointe of Pride by Chloe Angyal

On pointe.

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Elust 175

This month’s cover image for Elust 175 is courtesy of sensuous clairsentient seductress Nyala Mali. What a dazzling pic! Check out her site and follow her Onlyfans.

The Sex Shed – How to Recognize Anal Safe Sex Toys in 8 Easy Steps: Practical steps to ensure toys are safe for use, focusing on materials, design, and user guidelines to avoid potential risks and enhance safety during anal play.

Ramone Quides – Destroyer of Good Erotica!: The importance of maintaining flexibility in the creative process and the value of taking breaks to gain fresh perspectives. It also shares insights on overcoming writer’s block and enhancing storytelling techniques.

LA Jayne, Against the Discourse

Kristina J – The True Essence of Giving and Taking in Intimacy: The Wheel of Consent: The dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate relationships. Kristina J explains how understanding and applying these principles can lead to more fulfilling and consensual interactions, enhancing mutual satisfaction and trust.

Beyond Non-Binary – What do you Call a Gathering of Dominatrixes?: The nature of power, control, and the archetype of the dominatrix. It highlights the author’s experiences and insights into the world of dominatrixes, offering a unique perspective on their roles and the energy they channel.

Morgan Destera – TOY TEST – Funzze Glass Butt Plug with a Surprise: Glow-in-the-dark!

Betty’s Toy Box – Sharing is Caring: The Strapless Strap On Vibrator for Couples: How the toy can enhance intimacy and shared pleasure, offering detailed insights into its features and user experience.

Sydney Screams – Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review: Love a good fantasy themed toy.

Witch of the Wands – Heat Up Your Travel: Pack and Play with Sex Toys on the Go: Travel-friendly options like the Crave Vesper necklace, which combines functionality with style, allowing users to keep their toys handy and incognito. The post emphasizes the importance of discretion and convenience for travellers.

Unicorn Hunting Blog – Zara Du Rose interview: ZDR events and how to become a celebrity on the UK party scene: Event security, guest care, and the rules that ensure a safe and enjoyable environment for all attendees.

Buzzing Babe – Open the Doors to Light BDSM for a New Dimension of Pleasure: Practical advice on how to start with light BDSM activities, focusing on communication, consent, and the different forms of play that can enhance intimacy.

Sex Toy DB – 4 Ways to Use the Kiiroo Keon as a Mind Blowing Fucking Machine: Tips on setting it up in various positions and environments, such as on a dining chair or bondage bench, to maximize pleasure and functionality.

Sydney Screams, Mr Hankey’s Toys Beowulf Fantasy Dildo Review

Princess Preview, Funzze Mini Realistic Dildo

Stan’s Swingers – Swinging and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism: Embracing Public Play: The importance of communication, consent, and respect for privacy, offering guidelines for engaging in public play ethically and enjoyably.

barefoot sub, A nipple and dreams of piss

The History of BDSM – The Feeling That the Time for Doing Something Has Passed (2023): The Celluloid Dungeon: Insights into the film’s narrative, characters, and its place within the broader context of BDSM representation in media.

Hannah McKnight – Behold, the Power of Forms: Practical tips on choosing and wearing shapewear, emphasizing the transformative power of these garments in creating a desired silhouette.

Sex Worker Search – Best Business Practices For Sex Work Industry Websites According to VISA: Covers content moderation, age verification, and proactive policies to prevent exploitation, ensuring that sex work websites operate ethically and legally.

Oz Bigdownunder – Just a Cock in a Cage: Oz Bigdownunder shares a personal account of a BDSM session involving chastity play.  An intimate look at the power exchange and psychological aspects of chastity and control.

Sandra – Summertime Gangbang: My gangbang event.

Hellga – Malasana Pose Anal Action: Hellga details an encounter involving anal sex in the Malasana yoga pose.

The Siren Domme – Review: The Nest’ By Loonerfun: A multi room playspace in Cardiff.

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Elust 174

Cover image courtesy of Catalina Cruz. Subscribe to Catalina’s Onlyfans for naughty selfies, kinky photos and exclusive video clips.

Erotic Non Fiction

Voyageur Maggie and Paul

A short story exploring the complexities of a relationship marked by power dynamics and deep emotional bonds.

Kristina J Kink and Fetish

This post explores the variety and complexity of kinks and fetishes, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication in these practices.

Beyond Non Binary The Last Supper: a final night of “manhood” before sex reassignment surgery

reflecting on identity and transition

Erotic Fiction

barefoot sub Little Caged Dick Invites Consequences

chastity play

FYHO Her Boys

The dynamics of a polyamorous relationship

Jasmine Gold A Submissive’s First Threesome

Offline

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 36: The End

The final installment in the “Bedroom Eyes” series

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera TOY TEST – Funzze Steel Double-Ended Dildo

High performance and versatility

Liz X Likes Small but Mighty: Exploring the Delights of the Primo Wand Vibrator by Screaming O

compact size and powerful vibrations

Sex Toy DB Nothosaur “Hunter Jack” Horse Dildo with Tube Review

I’d like to take that for a ride

Sydney Screams Creative Conceptions Unihorn Review and Comparison

They’re too cute!

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Spices of Lust 18 Ideas For Breaking Bedroom Routine

creative suggestions for spicing up sexual routines, encouraging couples to explore new experiences together

Disorderly House BDSM Aftercare

Best practices for ensuring physical and emotional well-being post-scene

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch Porn Relationships

Big nipples please

Betty’s Toy Box 5 Best Sex Positions for Mind Blowing G-Spot Orgasms

Doggy for me usually but it depends on the shape and size of the cock or toy.

Books and Movies

LA Jayne Pride Month 2024 Queer Movie Recommendations (Part I)

For your viewing pleasure

Sex Work

Oz Bigdownunder Fly Me To La Lune. A Cuckolding Duo With Maxine Lune

Out of this world

Sex Worker Search Tech Stacks. Which Escort Directory Uses What Technology?

Take a look under the hood

Hellga A Bonny Lassie and Her Wee Sporran in Glasgow

An MFF strap on threesome

Sandra Kinky Adventures in Hong Kong

My post.

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Elust 171

Dive into Elust 171. Tub loads of sexiness. Image courtesy of Sydney Screams.

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

Sandra Vitamin S

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What’s the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

FYHO The Polaroid

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

Elust 170 Jo Koss

Elust 170 is Sexier Than a Black Tie Gangbang.

Elust 170 is now live with my Duo with TS Ama post included. Brilliant collection of sexy writing as always and I love the cover Image by Jo Koss! Gives me an idea for my next Gangbang or Bukkake party. I’ll make it a black tie event and ask all the gents to wear suits 🙂

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

Movie trivia = one of the naked slave girls chained to the wall is Lucille Ball.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

Watching out for the sequel. My money says Camilla is going to end up having a threesome with them.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

There should be more mollusc themed pet names if you ask me. Scallop.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Ever got turned on reading about bankers and lawyers networking after a corporate meeting? Trust me, you will.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

This almost makes me want to go running. Almost.

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Dylan Thomas’s excellent advice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

Huddersfield Escort extraordinaire with all you need to know about GFE.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

If everyone read this. I’d be out of a job..

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

Looks awesome. Maybe don’t take it in your hand luggage.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

I take back what I said about the buzz vibes post, I love sexy couples with great communication. If you’re a couple, read that and this , then come and see me!

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Terrifying.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Love a good sissy session.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

Likewise, I’ve figured out almost everything I know about being submissive as a sex worker via trial and error. The pro sub world needs this resource.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

My duo with Ama.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

Tis the season to wear latex and gas masks. While it’s not too hot and sweaty.

Oz Valentine’s Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Romantic 🙂

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

The A to Z of safely booking a session with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Brb, off to watch some hentai.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone’s a great sex blogger. I’m sure inspiration will return.

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Elust 168

Image courtesy of Adrianna Assante.

“Principle Decisions” by Thea Belmont is praised for its deep character exploration and BDSM themes.

“I Love a Man in Uniform (1993): The Celluloid Dungeon” explores the descent of a bank clerk turned actor into obsession with a police officer role.

“Exit To Eden” by Anne Rice is criticized for its handling of BDSM themes.

“What’s Wrong With Forced Feminization?” reflects on the cultural and psychological aspects of this kink.

“A little pick me up” discusses the therapeutic effects of rope suspension for emotional relief.

“BDSM Aftercare” emphasizes the importance of aftercare in BDSM activities.

“Unlocking Pleasure: 14 Essential Prodomme Tips for Baby Subs” offers guidance for new individuals in BDSM.

“Tender Domination” narrates a couple’s exploration of dominance and submission.

“The Ghost of Timor – Ch.21 – End” concludes an erotic fiction story.

“Sexy Ghost Story – Mia’s Books” introduces an erotic tale involving a ghostly seduction.

“Squeeze me Please Me” provides an informative guide to cock rings.

“Double Deflowering” describes a BDSM session focusing on anal deflowering.

“Happy Poo Emoji” my post about a scat fetish session.

“What to Do When Your Sexual Expectations Fail You?” addresses sexual performance anxiety and expectations.

“Revolting Prostitutes Book Review” reviews a book advocating for sex workers’ rights.

“Tracy’s Dog Flowliper Vibrator” review highlights its features and drawbacks.

“Review: Velvet Thruster Prime” evaluates a modular thruster with mixed feedback.

“RawLoveStudio Moonbean Unicorn Dildo” praises a fantasy unicorn horn dildo.

“Uncle Bob Silicone Dildo From John Thomas Toys” Bob is a big boy.

“Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker Review” provides a negative review of an electro-spanker.

“Keeping Your Toys Clean: A Guide to Protecting Your Health and Pleasure” emphasizes the importance of cleaning sex toys for hygiene and safety.