Tag Archives: History of BDSM

Elust 178 cover Anais Leigh

Elust 178

Welcome to Elust 178

Cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

Adult flicks.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Getting zen.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Solo time.

Betty’s Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Types of orgasms you might not have had… yet.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Bringing old-fashioned manners into the bedroom.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Zen again.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

Robogasmic.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

He’s going to spank someone soon.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

Or do.

Jasmine Gold, A Nun’s Humiliation

Diabolical.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn’t Know Existed (2024)

High tech wank.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo’s Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker


More tech wank.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Bonsoir sexy.

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

This is cool. Mistress Kim Rub is a legend.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

Good to know.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker


I remember when I was this new and having the same thoughts.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Oz and I.

Nuit d’Or, Self-care For Dominants

Interesting. I’m a fan of this blog and of Nuit.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Lucky sissy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Horrifying.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Loved the poem and the visuals.

Elust 171 Sydney Screams

Elust 171

Dive into Elust 171. Tub loads of sexiness. Image courtesy of Sydney Screams.

Sex Work

The Silky Masseuse A Provider’s Guide To Dealing With Time Wasters Pt. 1

Fox Digital How To Use Twitter: A Strategic Guide for Sex Workers

Sandra Vitamin S

Oz Bigdownunder A Trio with Mistress Chatterley and TS Ama

Sex Worker Search Twitter (X) Shadowbans

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Funzze What’s the BEST Material for Adult Toys?

Musings of a Switch The Early Days

Buzzvibes Open Relationships: Understanding the Landscape of Modern Love

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Edge of Anticipation and Desire: A Journey into Sensual Surrender

Beyond Non-Binary Period Sex and Sleeping with the Divine Feminine

Erotic Fiction

Jasmine Gold The Unicorn

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 33

FYHO The Polaroid

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub Bend Me, Break Me (Please)

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Charlie and Margeaux On Squirting

Product Reviews

Sydney Screams Blush Wellness Eternal Wand Review

Princess Previews Odyssey Toys Coffin Grinder

Sex Toy DB Hankey’s Toys: Davy’s Tendrils Dildo

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Peter and TammyJo review S&M Sally (2015)

Elust 170 Jo Koss

Elust 170 is Sexier Than a Black Tie Gangbang.

Elust 170 is now live with my Duo with TS Ama post included. Brilliant collection of sexy writing as always and I love the cover Image by Jo Koss! Gives me an idea for my next Gangbang or Bukkake party. I’ll make it a black tie event and ask all the gents to wear suits 🙂

Books and Movies

History of BDSM Roman Scandals (1933): The Celluloid Dungeon

Movie trivia = one of the naked slave girls chained to the wall is Lucille Ball.

Erotic Fiction

When Jerry Met Ali Voyeur

Watching out for the sequel. My money says Camilla is going to end up having a threesome with them.

Jerusalem Mortimer Bedroom Eyes 32

There should be more mollusc themed pet names if you ask me. Scallop.

Jasmine Gold Hyperion Man

Ever got turned on reading about bankers and lawyers networking after a corporate meeting? Trust me, you will.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

barefoot sub The Impact Of Running

This almost makes me want to go running. Almost.

Pain as Pleasure Burn And Rave At Close Of Day

Dylan Thomas’s excellent advice.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J The Girlfriend Experience: What Sets My Heart Racing and Ignites Desire

Huddersfield Escort extraordinaire with all you need to know about GFE.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Buzz Vibes The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Satisfaction for New Couples

If everyone read this. I’d be out of a job..

Product Reviews

Sex Toy DB E-Stim Systems Large Torpedo Review

Looks awesome. Maybe don’t take it in your hand luggage.

Sex Work

Amelia Swann Couples and Curiosity

I take back what I said about the buzz vibes post, I love sexy couples with great communication. If you’re a couple, read that and this , then come and see me!

Fox Digital Can AI Deblur Your Photos And Identify You?

Terrifying.

The Lady Phoenix Vision in Crimson

Love a good sissy session.

Carrie Young Introducing The Working Submissive

Likewise, I’ve figured out almost everything I know about being submissive as a sex worker via trial and error. The pro sub world needs this resource.

Sandra Duo with TS Ama

My duo with Ama.

Hellga Latex Fantasy Session with Poppers Gas Mask

Tis the season to wear latex and gas masks. While it’s not too hot and sweaty.

Oz Valentine’s Day Voyeur Duo with Kensley

Romantic 🙂

Sex Worker Search Clientopedia

The A to Z of safely booking a session with a sex worker.

Blogging

Musings of a Switch An independent artist search

Brb, off to watch some hentai.

Writing about writing

Ramone Quides Welcoming in 2024 with Writer’s Block

Ramone’s a great sex blogger. I’m sure inspiration will return.

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Elust 168

Image courtesy of Adrianna Assante.

“Principle Decisions” by Thea Belmont is praised for its deep character exploration and BDSM themes.

“I Love a Man in Uniform (1993): The Celluloid Dungeon” explores the descent of a bank clerk turned actor into obsession with a police officer role.

“Exit To Eden” by Anne Rice is criticized for its handling of BDSM themes.

“What’s Wrong With Forced Feminization?” reflects on the cultural and psychological aspects of this kink.

“A little pick me up” discusses the therapeutic effects of rope suspension for emotional relief.

“BDSM Aftercare” emphasizes the importance of aftercare in BDSM activities.

“Unlocking Pleasure: 14 Essential Prodomme Tips for Baby Subs” offers guidance for new individuals in BDSM.

“Tender Domination” narrates a couple’s exploration of dominance and submission.

“The Ghost of Timor – Ch.21 – End” concludes an erotic fiction story.

“Sexy Ghost Story – Mia’s Books” introduces an erotic tale involving a ghostly seduction.

“Squeeze me Please Me” provides an informative guide to cock rings.

“Double Deflowering” describes a BDSM session focusing on anal deflowering.

“Happy Poo Emoji” my post about a scat fetish session.

“What to Do When Your Sexual Expectations Fail You?” addresses sexual performance anxiety and expectations.

“Revolting Prostitutes Book Review” reviews a book advocating for sex workers’ rights.

“Tracy’s Dog Flowliper Vibrator” review highlights its features and drawbacks.

“Review: Velvet Thruster Prime” evaluates a modular thruster with mixed feedback.

“RawLoveStudio Moonbean Unicorn Dildo” praises a fantasy unicorn horn dildo.

“Uncle Bob Silicone Dildo From John Thomas Toys” Bob is a big boy.

“Qiui BeatPat Electro-Spanker Review” provides a negative review of an electro-spanker.

“Keeping Your Toys Clean: A Guide to Protecting Your Health and Pleasure” emphasizes the importance of cleaning sex toys for hygiene and safety.

Elust 167 cover by Pod

Elust 167

Elust 167 is here and what an awesome cover Image courtesy of Pod1213. Sit back, relax and enjoy all the best sex blog posts from the past month.

Product Reviews

Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator

Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox

The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action

Review: Magic Wand Micro

Midnight Menagerie Teufl

The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023

Gosh, you really got some nice toys here barefoot sub, Liz X, Betty, Girlyjuice, Princess and Sex Toy DB.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame

Quality post from Buzzvibes. Check out their products too.

Home for the Polydays

And a happy Polyday season to you too, Ready for Polyamory.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship

Silken Claws with much more than a handful of spanking advice.

Erotic Fiction

Red Panties and Purple Passions

Ramone finds a blackout mask draped over the spare room doorknob and the sounds of his wife in the throes of passion with another man. Every cuckolds wildest fantasy.

Bedroom Eyes 30

Jerusalem Mortimer with the latest adventures of Stephanie, Maires and their Master.

Books and Movies

Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings

Dracula! I love vampires. Never really thought about them as metaphors for forbidden sex, but it does make sense.

Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon

History of BDSM goes to the movies.

Sex Work

Come to Dubai Habibi

Oz enjoying sun, sand and forced bi duos in Dubai.

Locktober Special

Lady Phoenix holds the keys (to her slaves’ chastity cages).

Kink: Prostate massage

Mina Fontana gives a thumbs up to Prostate massage.

On Promises

Keep your promises to Louisa Knight.

Facility X Dungeon

My blog post.

Censorship

This is really bad news from Sex Worker Search. It seems google’s latest bright idea is to expunge sex workers sites from their search results.

The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine

Hellga puts the R in Male, Female, Robot double penetration threesomes.

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Elust 158

Image courtesy of Pilen.

Elust features an incredible selection of quality sex blog posts in Elust 158.

It was a pleasure reading all the sexy blog posts included this month.

Whenever I look at my analytics, I see a lot of new views coming from Elust re-posts.

Participating regularly in Elust is a brilliant way to reach a wider audience and to help promote talented bloggers.

Thank you to Oz for including my post and for everything he does for the sex blogging community. I know he dedicates a lot of time and effort to curating and publishing Elust and even donates a generous prize every month to encourage collaboration and co-promotion.

Erotic Non Fiction

Why on earth wouldn’t I want to live the rest of my life as a woman?

Thoughts on gender and sexuality from Girlieboy.

Friday, I’m in Love

Mr Friday sounds like a perfect masochistic sub for Mistress Victory.

His Fingers

Got to love a handy man with sexy hands.

Erotic Fiction

Working From Home Nightmare

A video conference meeting gets an eyeful of Alissa Thorne.

Dating Isn’t So Bad After All

A promising date for Barefoot Sub.

Baby Girl Tease

Asrai Devin presents an obedient sub and her strict Dom.

Sex Work

Theatre and a Threesome. A Duo Date with Mackenzie Beckles

Hellga has the perfect end to the perfect night out. A bisexual threesome!

Eiffel Towers and Assgasms. Duo with Goddess Cleo and FoXtress

Oz’s adventures with two strapped colleagues and a very accommodating bottom.

Playing with Myself with my New Thrusting Dildo

My new best friend!

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Propinkup Bunny Elf Clitoral Sucker

A toy that proves to be better than expected reviewed by Morgan Destera.

John Thomas Toys POD Platinum Silicone Stretcher Review

What a monster! Joanne reviews.

Cosmo Flogger

A shame this flogger is so flimsy. It looks beautiful.

New Fleshlight Boost Line-Up

The latest male masturbators presented by Safelust.

Books and Movies

Thoughts on Anne Rice’s ‘The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty’

A book review thanks to Mirror Secret Mirror.

O Fantasma (2000): The Celluloid Dungeon

History of BDSM with a movie review.

Blogging

Sayonara 2022, I’m so thrilled to see you go

A 2023 much better than 2022 is on the cards for Mischa Eliot

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

EVEN MORE Truths about Dating as a Sex Industry Professional

Super Smash Cache blogs about dating.

Quality is the key

Master’s Pleasing Bitch shares her thoughts on Body Count, the total number of sexual partners.

Awesome Sex

The key to great sex according to Musings of a Switch.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Shiny Things

Hannah McKnight looks gorgeous in an outfit from En Femme.

Chastity and FemDom Tasks List Story – Part 5

Two Mistresses dominate a pair of slaves.

Elust 139

Welcome to Elust 139.

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #140? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Books and Movies

Maitresse (1976): The Celluloid Dungeon

Erotic Non-Fiction

Erotic Fiction

Thoughts & Advice on Kink and Fetish