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Elust 178 cover Anais Leigh

Elust 178

Welcome to Elust 178

Cover image courtesy of Anais Leigh.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Musings of a Switch, Porn thoughts

Adult flicks.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sacred Sex: A Path to Deep Connection and Spiritual Awakening

Getting zen.

The Disorderly House, How to Fuck Yourself, An Ultimate Sexual Self Intimacy Guide

Solo time.

Betty’s Toy Box, Experience Your Ultimate Pleasure: 10 Types of Orgasm for You to Try

Types of orgasms you might not have had… yet.

Erotic Non Fiction

Kristina J, Manners Matter: Why Being Polite is Sexy (and Non-Negotiable, Even for Sex Workers)

Bringing old-fashioned manners into the bedroom.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Exploring The Full Body Orgasm: A Personal Journey as a Tantric Practitioner

Zen again.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Pain as Pleasure, Building A Role Play– Chat GPT and the end (or beginning) of everything

Robogasmic.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei Prologue-3

He’s going to spank someone soon.

Sugarbutch, Don’t Swallow

Or do.

Jasmine Gold, A Nun’s Humiliation

Diabolical.

Product Reviews

Buzzing Babe, The Best Male Vibrators for Pleasure You Didn’t Know Existed (2024)

High tech wank.

Liz X, Powerful Pleasure: Kiiroo’s Duo Powerblow FeelPocket Stroker


More tech wank.

Sex Work

Hellga, One Overnight in Paris. Fly Me to You

Bonsoir sexy.

Miss Kim Rub, Top Five BDSM Practices

This is cool. Mistress Kim Rub is a legend.

Sex Worker Search, How to Send a Takedown Request to an Escort Directory

Good to know.

Femina Viva, How to Set Your Price (or not) as a Sex Worker


I remember when I was this new and having the same thoughts.

Sandra, Flogging, DP and Two Pearl Necklaces. A Duo with Oz

Oz and I.

Nuit d’Or, Self-care For Dominants

Interesting. I’m a fan of this blog and of Nuit.

Oz Bigdownunder, I Fucked Her Sissy Tits Off. A Duo with Lady Ava Sheridon and Her Sissy Slave

Lucky sissy.

Books and Movies

History of BDSM, Strangeland (1998): The Celluloid Dungeon

Horrifying.

Poetry

Simone Francis, Watch Me

Loved the poem and the visuals.

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Elust 177 Glass Dildos, Body Paint, Sex and Zen

Cover image courtesy of Vivienne Black. Awesome pic. The rest of the photos from the same shoot are great too. Click the link to her twitter to see the photo set.

Sex Work

Gen West, When 3 Isn’t a Crowd

A playful look at threesomes and how to make it work for everyone involved.

Oz Bigdownunder, Sipping the Princess of Pop’s Prosecco, A Duo with Isabella Love

Mixing pop music and a cheeky drink with a bit of seduction.

Lexi Rose, She Wants to Slurp – Food to Make Your Cum Taste Better

Stay off the asparagus.

Maîtresse Nuit, The Art of Balancing Desires

Beautifully written and fascinating subject.

Sandra, LAM London Alternative Market New Venue

Shopaholic.

Kristina J, Living in the Shadows: The Unseen World of a Sex Worker

The hidden struggles.

Princess Kaz, The Alchemy of Role Play and BDSM

Purest gold.

Sex Worker Search, Privacy Policies of Sex Worker Directories

Calling out dodgy practices we all know escort directories engage in. Selling our personal details to advertisers and handing our identities to the authorities without requiring a subpoena.

Hellga, BDSM Dungeon Hourly Rentals in London

Kinky play spaces.

Erotic Fiction

Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 2

How many chapters do you think Sensei’s chastity and virtue are going to remain intact for? My money is on one. By chapter 4 he’s going to be balls deep in consenting adult Japanese women. I hope.

Product Reviews

Morgan Destera, TOY TEST – Funzze Jeweled Vibrating Butt Plug

Get the buzz.

Liz X, Clear Pleasure – Funzze Glass Dildos Seductive Rotary Surprise

Glass dildos with a twist.

Of Sex and Love, Why Do I Keep Breaking Vibrators? (a review of the Febos Wand)

My Queendom for an indestructible vibrator. Although it is waterproof, quiet, cordless and powerful.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sapora Knight, Boundaries: Elevate Your Intimate Connections to New Heights

Boundaries are sexy and essential for better connections.

barefoot sub, Today Is Not A Typical Day

That body paint looks amazing!

Tantric Sexual Healing, Sexuality as a Path to Meditation: A Tantric Perspective

Sex and Zen.

O Miss Pearl, Scenes From a Femdom Marriage

Sneak peek into long-term power exchange.

Witch of the Wands, Date Ideas to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship

The last one sounds good. Surprise picnic. Preferably including a powerful, rumbly, wand vibrator somewhere in the picnic basket.

Books and Movies

Schey Place Books, Erotic-Romance Book of the Year

Shout-out to the year’s best steamy romance novel.

Future of Sex, Long Live the New Flesh: The Cronenbergs’ Take on Tomorrow’s Sexuality Might Grow On—or In—You

Exploring Cronenberg’s freaky vision of future sexuality.

The History of BDSM, Tokyo Decadence (1992): The Celluloid Dungeon

Looks like my kind of movie. Just found it on Prime. Ok, I know what I’m watching later.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Femina Viva, The AI dominatrix training academy and why we will all be slaves

I, for one, welcome our new language model overlords.

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Elust 166

A beautiful cover image thanks to Heather Strong and so many incredible sex blog posts in this month’s Elust 166! Happy reading. Hope you enjoy these as much as I did.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Domina Decoded: 5 Femdom/Male Sub Principles

Super Smash Cache on how to rule over your male submissive and have him eating out of your hand.

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Silken claws on why chastity is not everyone’s cup of tea.

Erotic Non Fiction

Take A Look At Yourself

The barefoot sub in front of the full length mirror.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

How to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Man

GirlyBoy has switched endocrinologists and changed their hormone replacement therapy with a pronounced effect on their sensitivity and libido.

Get Popping: The Hot New Pleasure Trend

Betty’s Toy Box with a new technique and the toys best suited for this pleasurable way to play.

Wild Monogamy: interview with Mali Apple

Joan Price interviews one of the co-authors of a book on how partners can support one another in overcoming insecurities, inhibitions, shame, and self-consciousness that often accompany aging.

Product Reviews

The Basilisk

William from Musings of a switch reviews a monster dildo from Laphwing.

Worth Every Penny: Why Bloom’s AI Chat Is A Game-Changer

Liz Black road tests an erotic audio app with AI.

Erotic Fiction

The Gym

You meet a sexy stranger at the gym. Erotica written in second-person point of view by For Your Heart Only.

Steph’s Surprise

Gander in London presents a very sexy cuckolding scene.

Dare

Will the dare result in a reward or a penalty? By Dr Girlfriend for When Jerry Met Ali.

The Bradley Shower Pole

Gloryhole action in the bathhouse by Sinclair Sexsmith.

Writing about writing

Abundant Gratitude for Generosity and Grit

Ramone Quides gives thanks to those who have inspired his writing this month. Including Elust 🙂

Sex Work

Bring Your Fantasies to Life

Charlie Rose on different types of fantasies.

The Perfect Enquiry

Madeleine Rose on how to contact a sex worker.

Wiggly Worm the Cuckold. Duo With Sylvie

A red hot duo with Oz Bigdownunder.

Interview with Mike Stabile from Free Speech Coalition

Sex Worker Search interviews Mike Stabile, representing FSC,  the trade association of the adult entertainment industry.

MMF Duo with Oz Bigdownunder

My duo with Oz.

Fly Me To You. Police Role-Play in Dublin

Hellga takes no prisoners. Well. At least one prisoner is going to get taken. Up the butt.

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Elust 158

Image courtesy of Pilen.

Elust features an incredible selection of quality sex blog posts in Elust 158.

It was a pleasure reading all the sexy blog posts included this month.

Whenever I look at my analytics, I see a lot of new views coming from Elust re-posts.

Participating regularly in Elust is a brilliant way to reach a wider audience and to help promote talented bloggers.

Thank you to Oz for including my post and for everything he does for the sex blogging community. I know he dedicates a lot of time and effort to curating and publishing Elust and even donates a generous prize every month to encourage collaboration and co-promotion.

Erotic Non Fiction

Why on earth wouldn’t I want to live the rest of my life as a woman?

Thoughts on gender and sexuality from Girlieboy.

Friday, I’m in Love

Mr Friday sounds like a perfect masochistic sub for Mistress Victory.

His Fingers

Got to love a handy man with sexy hands.

Erotic Fiction

Working From Home Nightmare

A video conference meeting gets an eyeful of Alissa Thorne.

Dating Isn’t So Bad After All

A promising date for Barefoot Sub.

Baby Girl Tease

Asrai Devin presents an obedient sub and her strict Dom.

Sex Work

Theatre and a Threesome. A Duo Date with Mackenzie Beckles

Hellga has the perfect end to the perfect night out. A bisexual threesome!

Eiffel Towers and Assgasms. Duo with Goddess Cleo and FoXtress

Oz’s adventures with two strapped colleagues and a very accommodating bottom.

Playing with Myself with my New Thrusting Dildo

My new best friend!

Product Reviews

TOY TEST – Propinkup Bunny Elf Clitoral Sucker

A toy that proves to be better than expected reviewed by Morgan Destera.

John Thomas Toys POD Platinum Silicone Stretcher Review

What a monster! Joanne reviews.

Cosmo Flogger

A shame this flogger is so flimsy. It looks beautiful.

New Fleshlight Boost Line-Up

The latest male masturbators presented by Safelust.

Books and Movies

Thoughts on Anne Rice’s ‘The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty’

A book review thanks to Mirror Secret Mirror.

O Fantasma (2000): The Celluloid Dungeon

History of BDSM with a movie review.

Blogging

Sayonara 2022, I’m so thrilled to see you go

A 2023 much better than 2022 is on the cards for Mischa Eliot

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

EVEN MORE Truths about Dating as a Sex Industry Professional

Super Smash Cache blogs about dating.

Quality is the key

Master’s Pleasing Bitch shares her thoughts on Body Count, the total number of sexual partners.

Awesome Sex

The key to great sex according to Musings of a Switch.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Shiny Things

Hannah McKnight looks gorgeous in an outfit from En Femme.

Chastity and FemDom Tasks List Story – Part 5

Two Mistresses dominate a pair of slaves.