Welcome to Elust 195
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State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Anonymous for Viewers? A Practical Privacy Checklist
Think you’re invisible on cam sites? Not quite. This runs through what’s actually tracked, what’s not, and where your “privacy” quietly ends.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 3)
he aftermath of a very public, very sexy event lingers as characters swap stories and pics.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Architecture of Intimacy: Rewriting Love Beyond Possession, Identity, and Fear
A deep dive into love without ownership, where connection is about awareness and growth rather than control or labels.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, When Betrayal Becomes Arousal: Understanding Erotic Survival Through a Tantric Lens
Looks at the confusing overlap between pain and arousal, and why the body sometimes reacts in ways that don’t match what we actually want.
Femina Viva, Submission need not be weakness
Reclaiming submission as something chosen, powerful, and deeply intentional.
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, The Spirit Is Willing, Part Two: The Flesh is Weak
A meetup where desire is there but the body doesn’t quite cooperate, making things feel more human than perfect.
B R Saiph, Locked on the Precipice of Permanence: Her Decision, My Submission
A chastity dynamic pushed to its limits.
Product reviews
Liz Black, Hands-Free Pleasure: A Closer Look at the VVD Rider Desire & Rider Go (Plus Exclusive Discount!)
ride-on toy setup designed for hands-free fun, with different attachments to switch things up depending on your mood.
Spices of Lust, Lovense Gush 2 Review
Wank sleeve.
Sex Toy DB, Saddle Sex Machines or Sybian Alternatives: What Are They, and Which Is The Best?
Always wanted to try a sex saddle. One day.
Sex Work
Rogue Love Escapades, What’s in a name? The inspiration behind Rogue Love Escapades…
A rebrand
Sex Worker Search, Interview With YAS Work
Stripping, community, and how the industry is evolving behind the scenes.
Danny Gold, Anal Therapy
Up ya bum.
Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort
Privacy, comfort, and vibes all matter
Oz Bigdownunder, London Eye View MMF Couple Sex Marathon
A threesome with great views and even better stamina.
Ellie Hart, Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Most Attractive Quality
Turns out being attentive, aware, and actually tuned in is sexier than just looking good.
Sandra, A Massage with a Twist
My post. Thumbs up next time.
Hellga, Sara Graduates Sissy School
Apt pupil.
Mx Valentina, 113. Beyond the Veil: The Existential Architecture of Mx Valentina
Big Domme energy.
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, High Maintenance S03E05 “Payday”: The Celluloid Dungeon
A TV episode where kinky play is easy, but money turns everything complicated in a relationship.
Blogging
Sinclair Sexsmith, Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026)
Kink discussion groups and writing sessions