Welcome to Elust 199
Cover image courtesy of Venus d’Lux. Photography by Allan K Crain.
Starts with orgasm denial, ends with sexytime playlist.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
The BDSM Store, BDSM Punishment Generator
I got randomly assigned this = “The playful offence is neglecting the morning check-in message, earning a 30-minute session of enforced self-inspection and denial where the submissive must watch themselves edge without release. The Dominant directs every touch and pause while the submissive holds strict posture, building intense frustration under observation.” Edging and orgasm denial on the receiving end.. If the alternative is a caning, I’m taking the caning.
Hannah McKnight, I Want to be a Crossdresser
Start with a sissification session with a professional. eg me.
Sex & Relationships
Morgan Destera, And I Scream at the Top of My Lungs “What’s Going On?”
House hunting for adulterers.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Erotic Intelligence: Can Sexual Practice Increase Wisdom?
Can wisdom increase sexual practice?
Femina Viva, Are we all alone? Is life just one big futile exercise for connection?
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Product Reviews
Buzz Vibes, Best Masturbators Australia (2026): Our Top Picks for Every Budget
Let’s go shopping.
Safe Lust, b-Vibe Rocker Prostate Plug Tested: Rocking the Spot
Rock out with your cock out.
Liz X, Heavy-Duty Automation: A Review of the Honey Play Box Warrior Masturbator
Warrior pose 1.
Girly Juice, Velora Dune banana-shaped vibrator
Fruity.
Oz Bigdownunder, Orgasm Monster Pro 2 Review
Buzzy.
Books and Movies
O Miss Pearl, “The Everlasting” by Alix E. Harrow [Femdom Book Review]
Offline.
History of BDSM, Killing Me Softly (2002): The Celluloid Dungeon
Kink romance.
Sex Work
Hellga, Fisty Cuffs
Get up there.
Charlotte Cheshire, Luxury Companionship for Every Body: Finding a Disability-Friendly Independent Escort
You Are More Than Your AI Prompt.
Mx Valentina, Bespoke Encounters
Crafted.
Ur Little Secret, PSE Meaning: What Is the Porn Star Experience with an Escort?
Ill defined.
Sex Worker Search, Fairphone Sex Work Phone Update
If you see 2 or more phones in a handbag, sex worker. Or maybe a spy. Or both.
Sandra, In Flight Entertainment
Turbulence.
Teena Laurent, On Companionship Without Condition
Unconditional lust.
Milady, What’s in My Kinky Tote Bag?
What isn’t?
Mila Dall, Music, neuroscience and the link between sexuality and creativity
What’s on your sexytime playlist?