Welcome to Elust 193
Cover image courtesy of Circe.
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.
Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, A Little Sex
A personal journey into discovering kink later in life, where curiosity, authority, and the body come together in ways that finally feel honest and exciting.
Femina Viva, Love, submission, and are these my demons?
A deeply personal story about gender, power, and desire, showing how submission and dominance can shape a life rather than just a bedroom.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra against optimisation and the refusal of efficiency
A strong reminder that real tantric practice is about slowing down, discipline, and staying with intensity instead of chasing quick results.
Kristina J, He Thought He Was Leading, Intimacy, Control & Desire with Kristina J
ead of chasing quick results. Kristina J – He Thought He Was Leading.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Tantric Massage and Sexual Energy: Releasing Performance and Feeling Alive
An accessible look at how performance creeps into sex and how slowing down helps pleasure spread through the whole body.
Tantric Connections, Why Your Fears could be Guarding Your Pleasure
A thoughtful exploration of how fear often shows up right before deeper pleasure, and what happens when you stay with it.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Chastity Cages, How to Introduce Chastity to Your Partner (Without the Awkwardness)
Clear, practical advice for bringing up chastity in a way that builds trust and connection instead of awkwardness.
Mx Valentina, This is Not Kink: How Feminine Authority Rewires the Nervous System
A grounded piece on power and presence that shows how authority can be felt in the nervous system, not just acted out.
Denying Thumper, 2025 by the numbers
A long-term chastity diary that shows devotion through consistency, structure, and lived reality.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, Margot hosts (Part 2)
Elegant erotic fiction where confidence, timing, and mutual desire do most of the talking.
Simone Francis, The Artists’ Model
A sensual moment built around being seen, admired, and chosen, where maturity and confidence are the real turn-ons.
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Ur Little Secret Privacy Policies
A clear breakdown of how a new directory handles verification, security, and data protection for sex workers.
Adam Black, Why become a kinky high-end male escort?
An honest explanation of why kink, reliability, and emotional skill matter in high-end escorting.
Oz Bigdownunder, Nightclub Upskirting Perv Gets His Comeuppance
A playful punishment role-play that mixes humour, wrestling, and humiliation in a way everyone involved enjoys.
Hellga, Ball Busting
A direct, physical session focused on timing, control, and the deep grounding that pain can bring.
Sandra, Double Penetration with a Man and a Dragon
My post. Dragon tamed.
Product Reviews
Lushense, Original & Innovative Pleasure Toys Unveiled Part 2
A curated selection of well-designed toys that focus on comfort, creativity, and real pleasure.
Books and Movies
Liz Black X, Need a Vacation – Surrender to the Bliss Liner – The Complete Paradise Punch Trilogy is Live
Erotic sci-fi where control, transformation, and pleasure blend into a delicious loss of resistance.
The History of BDSM, CSI S11E14 “Sqweegel”: The Celluloid Dungeon
An interesting look at how TV uses fetish imagery to signal danger, fear, and loss of identity.